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Let me ask you something… Why do women cheat?
Why do you think they go out of their way to sleep with another guy when they’re already in a relationship with you?
Well there’s actually no simple answer.
In fact, it’s a bunch of things that cause cheating girlfriends to do this over a lengthy period of time.
Today I’m going to let you in the woman’s mindset when it comes to cheating and uncover why she’s actually doing it… and how to stop it.
So here goes…
How to tell if she’s cheating
These aren’t sure fire “set in stone” indicators that she’s cheating on you…. BUT they are a pretty decent indicator of something not being quite right in a relationship, so you should look into it further.
- Very distant with communication – When you text her, does she take hours to reply? I’m talking several hours. It’s understandable if she’s busy and can’t text you back for an hour or so, but it shouldn’t be several hours. Also when you call, does she pickup or does it go straight to voicemail?
- Appears as though she’s hiding something – When you’re with her and she gets a text or call, does she take her phone somewhere else… even hide the phone from your view?
- Cancels on your plans – When you both have plans for going out, does she cancel last minute and has she done so on many occasions?
What is considered “cheating”?
Ok, so let’s assume that we’re all looking at what would be viewed as a “normal” relationship. I would say that anything she does with a guy on a physical level could be considered cheating… so even something as simple as kissing.
But that really does depend on what you’re like as a guy, you might think that kissing is ok but full blown sex is definitely cheating.
The 7 reasons why she’s cheating
Now we know what cheating is, here’s exactly why she’s doing it and what you MUST do about it to stop it from happening.
- You’re not the same guy that first attracted her – When you first met, everything was new and exciting for both of you. But over time as you become more comfortable with each other, certain things become a bit stale. You need to remember what it was that she loved about your personality in the beginning and be “that” guy again.
- You suck in bed – Bro, you seriously need to work on your bedroom skills. Learn how to make her orgasm, read up on some foreplay tips and become the bedroom ninja that she’s looking for. If you aren’t satisfying her, then she’ll get bored REALLY fast.
- She needs more excitement – If you’re sitting at home every night with her, this will get extremely boring. You need to plan some date ideas that will surprise her, that you’ll both enjoy. This will ensure that she doesn’t get bored and actually looks forward to seeing you. But it could also mean you’re dating a dating a damaged girl. She might start going out with her friends a lot more too.
- You’re far too insecure – Everyone has some insecurities, but if those insecurities are getting you down and you actually have more than her, this can be a huge turnoff for her. Women like strong, confident and secure men… you need to be that man.
- You’re too negative – Negativity is a drain on energy for both you and her, if you’re always negative around her she will anchor these bad feelings and begin to dislike you. So stop being such a douche and be more positive bro.
- She’s feeling undervalued – Girls need attention from their man, if they feel as though you’re not giving them enough attention they will look for it elsewhere. Now you don’t need to smother her, but you do need to keep things spontaneous so that she can see that you care.
- To get you back for cheating on her – If you cheated on her before, then there’s a chance that she’s looking to get you back. Women can be spiteful, so this will always be a possibility.
What to do next
Take note of the signs your girlfriend doesn’t respect you, this will always be step 1 to her cheating if you allow it to continue.
So that’s why women cheat dude. If you want to stop it from happening, then you need do the opposite of what’s turning her off, it won’t be easy and it will take time, that’s also if you want to stick around with your “cheating” girlfriend.
On the other hand, you need to avoid getting into any type of relationship with a slutty woman that sleeps around. Here’s how to tell if she’s a slut before making her your lady.
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hi. at the beginning off the semester at varsity I met this girl and we both doing the same thing and will be stuck in the same classes for the next 3 years. after two weeks of meeting we started dating and before that she told me she was dating someone else ftom back home but after her and I were official she said she was just joking so as to play hard to get. I fell for her nd her for me, I buy her gifts, I always make her and friends laugh and I always make her cum like crazy. iv asked her 3 times before if she really ddnt hav anyone back home and she assured me she dznt. iv never had her on facebook but when I searched for her I found her relationship status was “in a relationship with blah blah since 2012” I confronted her about this and we argued for an hour as she kept saying shed broken up with him befor she came to skool. I then asked her to show me the fb convo between them and then she paused for a while and showed me. I found that theyv been keeping in touch constantly though theyv never seen each other since we started dating and they end every convo with “I love u”. after seeing this I simply walked away and she followed me in tears sayin she loves me nd wants to be with me promising shed end thinngs with the guy. I was so angry i wanted to smack her and so I warned her of this and after a while she let go of me nd I went to ky place. problem is I love her too much nd im going to see her every day in class and everyone thought we belonged together in class. what do I do?
Hi I’m jay I’m 30 she’s 23 I’ve been in a relationship 3 1/2 years with this girl I did cheat one time in the past and recently I said like 2 weeks ago we should be friends I wanted to see her reaction .so a week went by and I found out she was cheating on me with this guy she fucked him twice already maybe 3 times she still has his phone number in her phone and she says it hard to delete it and she says she loves me but now we’re having sex wat do I do
Stay in relaiontionship with her but do the same ;)
Am 28 and she is 19. She lied and cheated on me several times, but i can’t break up with her. I need your candid advice please
Saying you can’t means you don’t want to maybe because you believe “she’s different” or “there’s something different about her” she’s one in over 3 billion women. Go out hard 4 days a week for 5 months and see what happens ;)
Hello am 24 year old guy that has been one of the best man in a relationship I found out that woman was cheating on me with her ex last may to me it seems she can’t get over the guy and I love her what can I do to make things change
Well at least she told you.. But you could be wondering why is she asking me now? Why not when she did it? Ask her questions? See how she responds. It could not be what your saying but can be what are missing. Just be your best self and if it doesn’t work out (touch wood it does) then find another one.
Same thing happened to me …. Move on my cheating girl was 62. And I’m only 36 so she’s done
many women nowadays just can’t seem to stay with only one man anymore.
It takes two for a relationship and I think it’s important not to take the blame for her cheating. If she doesn’t have the balls to discuss issues in your relationship but cheats instead be happy that you got rid of her – she’s not relationship material. The most important rule is NEVER to get into a relationship with a woman who has cheated before, because she will do it again with you no matter how unlikely it will seem at first.
If she no longer likes her man, then why doesn’t she leave? Why stay with and cheat on him? Because she’s a cunt, that’s why!
If this article was aimed at women and was about cheating boyfriends, there’s no way it would say his cheating was in any way her responsibility.