I always espouse a top-down approach when it comes to learning how to generate attraction from women. Today, I’m going to take you away from the gimmicks, tricks and little gambits that you probably are already familiar with. I’m going to talk about two ways in which we can harness our knowledge of the human mind, and revolutionise the way we approach being attractive. [Read more...]
Attraction is all about the way you make a girl feel, but what about sexual tension? Well that happens all by itself when you do a series of things all designed to spike her levels of arousal towards you.
Subtle gestures, words and physical contact can do wonders for the amount of sexual energy you have with a girl. [Read more...]
There will be a moment in your life when you’re chatting up a girl, she’s digging you… the vibe is strong and you feel a connection. Then for whatever reason, she’ll just… lose interest!
Now this could be on the same day, evening or even after a few days/weeks.
The end result is the same, she’s not responding to you and it feels like she’s gone cold turkey on yo ass. [Read more...]
Being in a controlling relationship is a very bad place to be as a man. Now I’m not talking about the GIRL controlling you, I’m talking about YOU controlling the girl.
This is a tricky subject to touch on, because men who are in these types of relationships have no idea they are being controlling of their girlfriend. They re-frame it as they are being protective and caring for the girl, because they don’t want anything to happen to them. [Read more...]
Received an interesting email the other day from a guy wanting to get to the bottom of why this girl he’s been flirting with is always so willing be taken away by her cock blocking friend.
It’s something that’s happened to the best of us, but on multiple occasions with the same girl? Mmmm, something funky is going on here. [Read more...]
Closing and getting a girls number or even taking her home to bed is equally as challenging for some guys as opening is. It takes a lot of balls to ask for the number, because you know that there’s always a possibility you might get shot down.
Now I know you’ve been rejected before when asking for the number, so what do you think went wrong?
Why did she say no after all that effort? [Read more...]
Your comfort zone is that squishy, cuddly, warm part of your life that is seriously destroying your chances of getting laid. Not to mention… killing your confidence, crucifying your manhood and stripping your attractiveness bare.
Just outside of your comfort zone, is that little devil we all hate… fear.
Take one step outside and you’ll feel your gut fill up with nerves, your palms start to sweat, your face become red and your heart begin to beat faster than it should. [Read more...]
Kino is essential for building comfort, rapport and most importantly sexual tension. If you don’t use kino on a girl, then you can run the risk of falling in the friend zone.
Most guys start out by completely screwing up kino and end up touching a girl in a way that makes you look like a creep. Remember that touching is a very personal thing that requires some level of trust to begin with, so less is more when starting out. [Read more...]
The better you get at meeting and attracting women, the easier it is to spot when someone makes a rookie mistake. Having said that, it’s also easy to forget where you came from.
The funny thing is, even though you get better the more you practice, you’ll always find yourself making a rookie mistake every now and again. [Read more...]
Ethics and conscience isn’t something that people naturally associate with the Pick Up Community. At first glance Game is about tricks and gimmicks…the ultimate result of which is to punch way above your weight and get a girl that you could never normally get. While this may be true for many in the short term, let’s look further ahead shall we? [Read more...]