When you are learning pick up you are taught so many different methods, techniques and ideologies. Type in Mystery Method, The Game, PUA Training or Neil Strauss into Google or YouTube and you will get thousands of results. One thing however that I keep being asked about is the art of conversation. [Read more...]
How many times have you been at a restaurant and convinced yourself that the waitress likes you or is flirting with you? How many times have your lines been met with the smile of a barmaid only to me let down in the nicest of ways when you ask her out?
I thought so! Here’s a little rule that has saved me a lot of time over the over the years; part of working in the service industry means that you HAVE to talk to, and be nice to, your customers. A hairdresser, air hostess or receptionist is just doing their job. [Read more...]
We all have hangups about our self. It’s part of our nature, especially with the amount of pressure that is increasingly put upon us in today’s self analytical world.
We think we need to look a certain way to make ourselves more attractive to women. [Read more...]
Women tend to create wild and crazy love fantasises in their head that are never going to materialise in real life. Why? Because they are not “real” they are taken from fictional novels or rom-coms that are designed to make you feel all gushy inside.
They are somewhat delusional in thinking that a white knight is going to sweep them off their feet and marry them. I think this is something that’s instilled at a young age and then develops into “finding Mr right” as they get older. [Read more...]
Starting a text conversation with a girl can be tricky. It usually depends on the why, which helps you to setup the frame of the text and craft an opening text that will pretty much force her to reply.
The key to getting girls to reply from the very first text is to evoke an emotion that compels them to do so. If you’re text DOES NOT evoke humour or curiosity then you can bet that she will flake. [Read more...]
Drying up mid flow during a conversation with a hot lady and have NO IDEA what to say next? No worries dude, it’s a common problem.
You’ve been there… a smoke-show stands in front of you at Starbucks… you pluck up the confidence to open her, she’s instantly receptive and then you immediately start sweating because you don’t know what to say to keep the conversation going with her. [Read more...]
When learning about game, most guys head straight for the external… the pickup lines, tricks and routines that will help them “get the girl” when in fact they are starting in the wrong place.
The first thing you should be doing is tackling your objections.
You need to dissolve your inner negative beliefs before you learn any type of game.
Stay with me here, this is important. [Read more...]
Daygame is a totally different beast to night game, there are a lot of guys that apply the same principles to day game as they do with night game and wonder why they don’t get the same results.
Well, it’s because you’re dealing with multiple factors. [Read more...]
A common question I get asked and a problem that a lot of guys are having is this… “I met up with a girl for a first date, it goes great and then for whatever reason, she rejects the second date or just ignores my texts… this has happened several times, why?”.
Well there are several possibilities as to why a girl will reject your second date, but I’m going to run through the 6 most obvious ones which make up the large portion of her decision. [Read more...]
So why power and influence?
Simple. Because they are both incredibly seductive. If you haven’t already, I highly suggest you read through my top list on PUA books which will get you started in the area of pickup and fine tuning your seduction skills. [Read more...]