6 Reasons Why You Need To Do Suicide Missions When Starting Out

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Learn the art behind the approach.

 

If you’re not familiar with the term “suicide mission” yet, then let me explain.

A suicide mission is simply a way to get over your approach anxiety and grow a pair. The main purpose is to help you during the warmup phase, so that when you see a girl you really like you won’t hesitate to approach and can open her with relative ease. [Read more…]

How To Game Tinder In 5 Steps And Sleep With A New Chick Every Week

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Do this… Don’t do that!

 

Tinder has been at the forefront of mobile app dating for the past few years now, it’s had some harsh criticism and some praise. Whichever side you fall on, there’s no question that if you’re looking to get laid… you use Tinder.

Here’s the thing though, most guys do the same thing with Tinder. They upload terrible photos, swipe right on the hottest girls and always use the same boring game on each of them. [Read more…]

When Do You Need To Be Sexual With A Woman? [READER QUESTION]

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Keep dialling up the attraction.

 

Today I have a really good question from a reader that I wanted to share which is a common question. It’s something that I used to have a ton of trouble with and it pretty much took me a couple of years to master, all because I was so insecure and uncomfortable around women.

Anyway, let’s get on with the question:

Question from a reader:

Hey Rich,

I read your book recently (The Natural) and have been having trouble with being sexual with women. I am totally fine approaching them, even really hot ones, but when I try to build sexual tension it just back fires and the girl loses interest. I’m always in the friend zone and the same thing just seems to happen every time I want to sleep with a girl.

When do I need to be sexual and how can I do it fast?

Thanks,
Derek

My answer:

Hey Derek,

Ok so, building sexual tension/attraction with a woman will take practice. You need to be confident with your actions first and foremost, but from the sounds of it, you are having trouble conveying your sexual intersest in women. I.e. when you meet them, they are not aware that you want to sleep with them… so immediatley put you in the friendzone.

This is a big problem and won’t go away until you address it. So let’s fix that now.

The next time you approach a woman (let’s say it’s night time in a bar) you need to approach her with an authoritive, calm and sexual manner.

Once you’ve opened her, the rule of thumb is this… you MUST begin to build sexual tension within the first 30 minutes otherwise you’re going to make it very hard on yourself and she most likely won’t want to sleep with you.

So within those precious 30 minutes, you should be doing the following…

1. Eye contact

Locking eyes with her and not breaking that contact until she does. Don’t be creepy with the eyes, just think seductive. Being able to hold eye contact is 50% of the battle at least.

2. Lips

Take your gaze from her eyes, down to her lips but in a triangular fashion. So start with the left eye, then move to the right eye and finally down to the mouth, holding for a second on each. Repeat this 2 or 3 times slowly. This will make the interaction more seductive.

3. Light constant touches

Kino (touching) is the other 50% of the battle. When you touch a girl and how you touch a girl is SO IMPORTANT for creating a sexual tension that will make her incredibly horny, very fast. Touch her arms, stomach, hands, legs, face… everywhere that a “friend” wouldn’t really touch. Also make sure they are incredibly light touches.

4. Interlock fingers

Interlocking fingers sends a very strong signal of “we’re connecting on a deeper level”. It helps with trust and once she trusts you, it will make it much easier to sleep with her.

5. Sensual hugs

You may have heard of this before, but sensual hugs can lead to sex so fast it’s unbelievable at times. The next time you’re talking to a woman, say to her that you learned a techqniue called “ashram hugs” where you hug for 1 to 2 minutes, but you breath at the same time in/out. When you do this with her, it will catapult the sexual tension far beyond what you could have imagined.

6. Read her signals

Always read her signals. Is she self grooming, is she lingering, does she keep eye contact instead of looking around, is she touching you, does she initiate the conversation when silences happen.

7. Keep pushing

Don’t forget you need to keep dialing up the attraction. Keep touching more, getting closer, looking at her seductively and moving in for the kiss…. etc. This will move things much faster, so you can bang her.

And there you have it.

Hope these tips help. Let me know how you get on Derek.

Thanks Rich.

Why You Should Stop Trying To Get Laid

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Women will follow if you create a valuable lifestyle.

 

I used to try REALLY hard to get laid when I first started out back in the day. I would chase women, pressure them, hound them until I got them into bed.

How many women did that get me in the end? Not many, one or two over several months of constant pursuit. [Read more…]

How To Take Over Any Bar And Engineer Your Social Value In 6 Steps

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It’s far easier than you think.

 

Taking over a bar is one of the best things you can do to get laid, meet cool people and even get free drinks/food. It can be done in any city all over the world and will open up a side of your game that isn’t usually accessible to most guys.

So what do I mean by “take over”? [Read more…]

The Evolution Of Game: 11 Stages You Need To Get Good At Before Mastery

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Mastery is only 11 stages away.

 

When I first started out learning about game, I was confused… frustrated and felt utterly disappointed every time I got rejected or some girl flaked on me after I’d worked had to get her number.

Nowadays, almost 10 years on… I’m incredibly happy with my life. The funny thing is that when you get to a stage where you’ve mastered every area of game or at least gotten to a very good level, you become less focused on pickup and running game, it all just flows naturally. [Read more…]

3 Counterintuitive Things You Can Do To Make Women Want You More

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Photo credit: The Chive

 

As habitual creatures, us humans like to run patterns over and over in the same way, even if they are in fact bad for us and can cause us long term harm.

These patterns go on for years and are so ingrained in our minds that we begin to justify them. For example, how many times have you gone to a bar or club, headed straight for the bar… got a drink and just stood there in one spot or grabbed a chair and sat their the whole night, until you were completely drunk? [Read more…]

The Most Powerful Mindset Shift You Can Have For Nightclub Game

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Use my techniques… and get the girl you want.

 

I want to share something quite profound that I’ve noticed over the years, from visiting hundreds of nightclubs. Now you might not agree with this and that’s ok. Frankly I don’t care… because it’s true to me. [Read more…]

How To Deal With Objections Like A Pro

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Dealing with objections is easy.

 

Objections will come up with every woman in almost every interaction at some point, which by the way is a GOOD thing. If you’re with a girl and she doesn’t object to anything, then you need to worry. Having said that, if you get objections frequently, then you’re game just needs to be super tight. [Read more…]

5 Signs That Mean You Need To Get Out Of The Pickup Community

The pickup community can do one of two things:

It can help you to realise that the reason you currently suck with women is because you’re not being the kind of man that women find attractive. This will in-turn make you more curious, you will learn which methods work for attraction, how to dress, how to act/speak, why confidence is so important etc. [Read more…]