Guys,
Here’s part four of our Free Online Bootcamp Series. Thanks for all the great emails and comments from you guys so far. Keep the comments coming, we have had some nice discussions on points in previous videos, and i’m going to be looking at them and replying.
Anyhow, part 4 is right here and we still have a little way to go to the end. I’m still debating whether to put together something with the new stuff and give you a taste of all that. This video includes some great inner game stuff and also some NLP and attraction building!
The previous parts are here:
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That fuck it mentality is actually The Sedona Method. It is the key to inner game. Richard felt the anxiety and then he LET IT GO. This is when you stop personalizing the emotions. They are JUST FEELINGS. Just let them go.
Another really useful video with loads of great stuff on.
This is good stuff, actually. A lot of people ridicule this stuff, but this is really the guts of it and life in general.
Another great video. I liked the frame stuff. Can't wait for the next part! You have us all hooked with this killer new routine!
Very helpful Richard.
Awsome video.
Looking forward for your ultimate,secret & deadly seduction approach in the next video.
Cheers guys. Yes Karl, the next one contains the secret "most powerful routine ever".
I've NEVER taught it, it's not googleable, right now it only exists on my laptop in the next slide of the presentation!
So what if you have some deep issues that even loads of positive affirmations can't over power? I've tried affirmations for weeks at a time, and I am still fucked up in the head. It really sucks. Deep depression and fear abound….
Hey NutterButter, affirmations Don't work for everyone! They Don't!
Email me if you want at PUABELFAST@live.co.uk and we can talk if you'd like mate
First problem with affirmations is that we all have a brain, and if our brain doesn't believe
"I am Fun"
No matter how many times it is said, our brain won't process it as a real statement. The neuro association that the affirmation is false may be to strong to overcome by simply saying them out loud. The affirmations we choose must in someway be believable by our brain. This is my view.
contradicting this
There is a school of thought that repitition of affirmations is enough for them to get nto your head, over a period of months, years. I would say for affirmations to work you need to move your body and SHOUT your affirmations, this would be more effectrive! Motion creates Emotion, move around a little!
Great video, great advice; looking forward to the next part
I don’t think there is an inner game magic bullet. Many many things can help and it’s hard to pick one thing that works for all people 100% of the time. I used to be depressed and have low self-esteem.
The following things have helped me with inner game/confidence:
Milton Erickson Books (eg Uncommon Therapy, but 25+ in total)
Old Richard Bandler NLP books (eg Using your braing for a change)
Self-hypnosis (both learnt and from audio)
Books by Alan Watts
One of my top books – Prometheus rising
Hemisync, holo-sync, dane spotts, brainwave audio stuff
Other self-help and self improvement books.
Positive role models like Tony Robbins or Milton Erickson.
And yes, affirmations.
Doing scary things: TEFL Course, salsa, acting class, starting to teach, moving house.
Taking action, action leading to some results, some learning. Confidence coming from a sense of improvement. Increased confidence leading to better results and it forming a virtuous cirlce.
Working on myself: Doing courses, getting qualifications, broadening my knowledge, travelling, learning to pose/make expressions/being aware of my body and face through practicing stuff in the mirror (!). Becoming more socially skilled by talking to people more generally and coming out of my shell.
Now what gives me my confidence is this: I’ve had so many girls be attracted to me, I have lots of great female friends who want to spend time with me, I have male friends who I respect and who respect me back. I don’t give a fuck what a stranger says, they don’t have any power over my emotions. The only people who have power over my emotions are the people who are close to me (friends and family) and generally what they say is positive.
THERE IS NO MAGIC BULLET TO INNER GAME, but each of the things i’ve mentioned added a few % and all together it created a massive change in me that is irreversible.
-G
Thanking you very much. But I like to watch free vedios of the Girls having sex with animals specially horse, Thanks
yes. gambler should have posted some clips of good woman – horse love making. i agree with anjum.
without defeat one can not appreciate victory
Man, your free bootcamp vids are killer material. I am someone who has some degree of natural game and I recognise so many things you say as things I do and I know work. And then, amongst these recognisable assets, there'll be few that I'd never thought which help me address issues and take it to the next level. I love those vids and your down to earth approach. I have joined the game because, even though, as I said, I am fairly succesful with women, I am not the guy who can walk into a club and get any woman he likes. I want to up the level of women I get from cool sweet girls to truly stunning.
Thanks for sharing all this – and, offcourse, its a good selling point for you! Anyone can talk rubbish but I am impossible to sell to. If however I can see I am getting a good deal, then I buy, and with your vids I know I definitely want to attend one of your camps, as soon as some current circumstances improve.
without defeat one can not appreciate victory
wow thats great
Gambler, I must say that having watched all of your vids I have a GREAT deal of respect for you. For what you do, for what you have achieved and your willingness to share this knowledge with others.
This sort of stuff should be taught at school so that us guys do not end up frustrated and at the mercy of how we feel towards the opposite sex. Women are masters of emotion and able to see right through us. With these skills Gambler you have enabled a lot of people to not only level the playing field but you have taught an ethical game.
Us PUAs are not just in it for our pleasure, f-close involves the women enjoying the experience itself.
Gambler, you say and teach what so many of us guys need to learn and you do it in such a down to earth, unpretentious way.
Keep the excellent work.
Hi Richard,again thank you so much for the free online bootcamp videos,I don't think you realise just how much we all appreciate them,I'm getting loads of great advice from these,they are fucking amazing just like you,thanks again Richard.
The stuff are out there. But no one puts them in order better
than you do!
Ever thought about having workshop or bootcamps in Asia?
Hungry for more!
I really liked that video it gives you a inward look at yourself and ways to improve it. Keep sending that stuff out its the best PUA stuff going around
Hi Gambler,
For years I used to play an endless reel in my head:
"I've no friends, everyone hates me, nobody loves me… etc etc etc." One time I came home one weekend from college and was literally crying hysterically repeating this in front of my parents and siblings claiming there was a malign conspiracy against me and they naturally enough broke up laughing.
They told me how much they were proud of me, how much I had achieved in my life and I suddenly saw the light and also started laughing.
I actually went back to college and managed to make friends with people I had convinced myself had it in for me and life got better from then on.
I think one of the best ways to feel good is to have mental iPod playing an appropiate tune – when I feel like going out and meeting women I started humming the tune of "Rapture" by Blondie.
It always does the trick.:)
Richard i totally agree with your Inner Game concept…absolutely there are no MAGIC PILL for it. It only comes for sense of improvements and news skills that you newly posses.
We have to make decision to change our life, once you're committed to take actions on your goals. If You must do it, you make it work!!! Results you want may not show up in few days or weeks. Eventually you'll get there as long as you focus on it and committed to make this happen.
eh eh….I'm italian….the verb is "ballare",not "bellare",and yes,it means "to dance" ;-)
everytime i get an email from this guy i get better…i almost feel bad that everyone doesn't know this stuff….then i remember if they did the competition would be a lot tougher…im still an amateur but the small bits i have tested are working…i feel great and truly am begining to feel comfortable in my own skin constantly for the first time since the dreaded breakup with my first gf c.6years ago…if you have trained c.2000 people and there is c. 3.5million men in london alone does that not mean only 0.0571% of men in london have all of these tools at their disposal. 0.0571 men who truly have the choice to be with the woman they choose and not the woman they randomly find themselves with. Anyways im not in that percentage but i will keep pushing until i am!! I may have said it a million times already but thanku Richard!
this is wonderful thanks master ineed more seduccion tecnics. =) i love pau
n this is for the stupid people talking about horses come thas why u don get lay. be serius u2. don write bull shit
hey rich,
this is your best material!
you can teach techniques to guys until you're blue in the face, but unless you have the right frame of mind, its useless…
you covered alot of negative thoughts that myself have experienced ( judging success against other peoples success etc.) and its comforting to know that other people have these "road blokes" too and they can be over come.
cheers mate
I recieved a notification for this video a week ago and finally I'm able to watch all these free online bootcamps videos. I really love them and I really felt it necesary to post on this one. For some reason I didn't use affirmations when I read them on self-help books but somehow, now, I began to belive in them and they are working for me. In fact my passwords for my different emails accounts and forums are affirmations so I'm forced to repeat them to me everyday when I log in!! Take care
Forgot to say, thank you very much Richard for all these videos!!
I'm really thankful Richard for this videos,"MY NAME IS SAMEER SHAIKH".
Thanks so much this video was extremely helpful!!!
none of these videos work on my computer, so frustrating
You say to stop idealizing women and think that they "sleep with any old guy".. well the word "old" is misplaced here. You are actually making a judgement that sleeping with an older guy is wrong. I protest that judgement. Older men are no worse than younger ones. If anything they are even more attractive. We know that men are like wine – getting BETTER with age..
Gaming is an important matter to be discussed and should beobligatory in school, to integrate our kids to the sedentary routine Just joking
it's unfortunate that i did not see the stuff.Enway i guese it was cool according to the comments i've seen
Hey, this isn't my real name. But how do I delete my comment as I just realised I don't want my GF googling it :)
Richard, how come you don't personally reply to your emails? I was seriously considering taking your bootcamp but got really put off by the automated replies and the fact that you are personally not present in the bootcamp. Also there is no field videos of the guys that do the bootcamp ive found all this quite unconvincing, please prove me wrong as I genuinely can and do want to be good at this game..
well thank u so much ,u sound like u got a bit of a cold.listening to u is refreshing.really feels like a good friend with no big ego.im just listening to "stop idealising women" u hit the nail on the head there.u sound like u got a cold .u help me alot .id like to help u u sound like u got a cold.apple cider vineager turmeric extra virgin olive oil and garlic and honey makes a great thing to dip ur bread in or on salad .get some sun for vitamin d3.all good for immune system.if there is anymore in u.k. "talk with passion about something other than them" another diamond .makes me think of a time when i saw this ten go into a unisex bathroom she was gorgeous but when i went into toilet after fuk man the smell i couldnt believe such a beatiful creature could exude such a vile smell. take care man.
yo kid u r a cool dude. u take what u kno and teach it to people who need that little boost. coodos keep up the good work. i'll be paying attention.
Hi,Richard let me tell something fishy about FEMALES rather EMAILS,Do you know as MEN use Condoms for Safe Sex,Even Women use Condoms,and in India the first Female Condom named,"CONFIDOM",Hindustan Latex Ltd(HLL),India first imported it from Britain's Female Health Company in 2006.HLL later started producing female condoms at its own facilities,these condoms are made of polyurethane.The latest versions are made of Nitrile,another form of rubber,and are cheaper,stronger,smoother,thinner and more reliable than a male condom that is made of latex rubber.Today,several condoms available in Indian Markets range from Rs.35 to Rs.125 for a pack,andCondom owe their success to Confidom.Like when I was in the College doing my studies,I and my friends use to purchase condoms boldly from Medical Stores,and that was my signature,"Well,Can I have a pack of Moods" Please? Well what's your signature.
It is well known that opening and closing ceremonies make or break mega events such as the COMMONWEALTH GAMES.The opening ceremony at the Beijing Olympic Games was watched by more people than the swearing-in of US President Barrack Hussain Obama.Such ceremonies which showcase the host country's culture and financial muscle,are actually statements to the world.As University of Chicago Proffessor and Olympic expert John Macaloon argues,their symbolism goes far beyond the sporting field,and DELHI 2010 will be no different.But before that,a flashback to the 10 most talked about opening ceremonies in the history of"THE COMMONWEALTH GAMES".*HAMILTON-1930,*LONDON-1934,*SYDNEY-1938,*AUCKLAND-1950,*WALES-1958,*PERTH-1962,*JAMAICA-1966,*EDMONTON-1978,*MANCHESTER-2002 and *MELBOURNE-2006.As Delhi braces itself to showcase 5,000 years of Indian culture to the world in 2010.
He dude!STAR POWERS REALLY WORK.You must me knowing that it's RICKY MARTIN sang,"the cup of life",the Official song of the 1998 World Cup Football;the Official 2010 FIFA World Cup Song was "Waka Waka",sung by SHAKIRA,Nelly Furtado sang "Forca",the official song of the 2008 European Football Championship.I do have a believe in Stars and Celebrities and a fan of them along with time.And Specially FOOTBALL is one among my favourite sports.
i rather prefer to think that the inner game status of self confidence comes when you realize that there's nothing to loose, i did it, i lost the fear to aproach a hb and i managed to make a k-close it was my first attempt with a 9 so we all realize it was difficult, but indeed, self confidence was the key in my inner game, and i gain that with affirmations about myself, not so unrealistic as i saw'em here but still affirmations, so good work Gambler
I got a question , its a long story but i just want advice on what to do btw im still in high school so bare with me
so basicly i see this girl i like in school and i tell jorge oh that girls cute ima talk to her one of these days then the next day during lunch we are walking around we see her in a hallway , jorge is drunk , and ET and oscar are there we are walking, jorge he sees her he points at her and saids HEY CARLOS ISNT THAT THE BITCH YOU WANTED TO TALK TO… so im like trying to walk away, btw i do know i acted like a little bitch and i shoulda talked to her but w.e it happened. so yea i keep on walking and hes like CARLOS STOP BEING A LIL bitch then my friend oscar grabs me and he trys dragging me to her and then i grab his legs pick him up, point is we wrestle i end up in a headlock until he lets go then we go to a room with stairs and im there trying to think what to do, so i say fuck it i might as well get drunk and do this so i chug on half a water bottle of vodka im not drunk then my friend ET goes and asks her for her number she saids she has a boyfriend then i go and we right next to her and jorge is like go talk to her and im like let me get a little more and try to snatch his bottle he jumps saids no FUCK you my liq and runs away, ok thats on wensday, so on thursday jorge stays home oscar is not there and its me and ET walking during lunch we see her but i get scared and dont talk to her again and we walk towards parking lot but security guard tells us to go back so when we turn around we walking towards stairs, (btw its same hallway as before) and shes walking towards us so i go to the stairs and im waiting for ET cus he stays behind and she comes and bumps in to me then smiles i say oh sorry and keep on walking so we walk around for like 10 mins comes back to a door that leads to the same hallway and shes sitting there and im like i gotta do this, im getting ready to talk to her and i get scared again out of nowhere so i just walk away but my friend et stays behind and i walk around for like 5mins then i call him and im like yo et where you at and i hear a giggle, and its her and shes like its not et its the girl you like and im like fuck… and shes like you gonna come and im like yea so im like trying to figure out what to do then the bell rings and i see et i grab him and i throw him against the floor and her fat friend happens to see me doing it she passes by and laughs at me. ok so thats on thursday btw that same night on facebook i send her a message saying “hi im the kid thats been embarrassing himself for the past 2 days and i was wondering if i talk to you tommorow to explain a few things cus i really need to set things straight ” she saids “wtf kid idk you and i have a bf” i say ” dam its not even about that” then she says” well then tell me here” and im like ” its to long fuck it i shoulda stopped being a lil bitch and told you when i had chance” she says” well i gtg” well anyway i know i fucked up there i shouldnt have said that but w.e, so now fastfoward to tuesday i tell my friends et and jorge that i was stressing about it they say they gonna go talk to her i tell them no ima do it and they like no we gonna talk to her so in lunch i get a phone call from et and hes like yo we next to this girl she wants to talk to you and im like wtf did i tell you then she comes out in phone and hears me bitching at him and shes like hey you gonna come and im like yea… wait for me, so here i am really pissed off omw ready to hit someone and i see my friend on the way and i tell him what happened really quick and hes calming me down so when i get there my friend et and jorge they run like they get out of there i walk after jorge and i pass her i say hi then im like walking around thinking what t odo i ask her what they tell you and shes like oh nothing then i see them outside i get ET i throw him against wall i get him in a headlock i let go he pushes me he gets mad and punches the wall, her fatfriend is watching this btw. ok so now its wensday et didnt come cus he broke his hand, but et and jorge tell me that they didnt tell her anything that they walked by there and asked them oh hey come over here so whats new with your friend, and they like oh nothing he really likes you, and shes like you have his number? call him , thats the part that has me confused she saids she has a bf but at same time she tells them to call me i dont get that. so its the next day i see her walking really fast in the hallway and im like hey what happened yesterday and shes like oh i gtg overthere and she points somewhere. so now its today and i go up to her and i just say hey im sorry about the other day i know i acted stupid like a little kid and im sorry about last week to i know i acted retarded, you can tell it really wasnt a good week for me i even tried getting drunk to talk to u if u noticed and shes like yea and im like so yea just wanted to get that out of my head and i left.
I really like this girl and i cant talk to her until school starts again in 2 months because i have no way of contacting her so what should i do ?
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