We’ve been getting lots of emails lately with similar questions. Stuff like:
How do I seduce women on Facebook? How do I make a women from Facebook to come for a date with me? How do I find a pretty girl’s profile? Why seducing women on Facebook is so difficult? How to meet a girl of my dreams on online?
So I ask AFC Adam and he has successfully done it!
Heya guys,
I’ve recently been doing a hell of alot of direct game, as it fits in very well with the lifestyle I’m trying to create for myself.
Truly Direct works soo much easier if you have alot of value initially. In fact it’s probably the best way to go.
Anyway I was only with this one girl for like 2 mins before I had to leave so I told her to Facebook me.
She poked me and I used it to run my standard club game though over Facebook.
As it was all there written up I thought I’d Cut, Paste and share.
I had no idea she was in a relationship and therefore am NOT going to pursue it..
But I reckon it pretty much sums up my game at ther moment.
She didn’t add me as a friend she only poked me, which from my experience shows she’s either shy. (which I know she isn’t) or intended to play some kind of game with me chasing her.
Hope ya’ll enjoy.
AFC AdamLondon
Adam Lyons
Today at 11:58pm
You really should be careful who you poke.
I’m alot of trouble.
HB
Today at 11:59am
Oh really now… Lol… Why is that then? :p
Adam Lyons
Today at 12:02pm
Well because,
I’m quite possibly the biggest trouble maker in London.
And I can see you’re in a relationship so you’lld prob best stay away.
There are only two types of girls in this life.
Those that like causing trouble themselves, and are up for a few fun times, crazy nights, awesome dinners, crazy sex and then staying good friends for the rest of life.
or
those that think they can change someone and are looking for that special someone.
I promise you if you are the second type you should stay away now.
If not…welcome to my world.
HB
Today at 12:06pm
hhhmmm…. Intersting…
Well I think I’m closer to type number 1… Love the speech… :p
Where did you disappear off to the other night? x
Adam Lyons
Today at 12:15pm
Glad you liked the speech, :D
I like playing fair, I refuse to waste my time on girls that like playing games, and don’t play them myself life’s too short for messing.
My last few days have been really hectic.
So how come you’re on facebook all day?
And whats your fav food?
I would normally create a date off the back of the food thing… though this girl is outta luck.
Hope it helps,
AFC AdamLondon
Niiiiice, so… basically you play direct on facebook, you know when i started reading the post i was like "man, what´s the deal? aren´t we supose to be skilled enough at least to go out to the street, a bar or a club and pick up any girl we want? so… why look for her on facebook, that´s lame" but i like the focus that you gave to it, to increase your club game and the attraction that you already had with her, you know? i think i have a pretty good indirect game, but id really like to become more agressive and direct, more sexual, i think this would fit more with the lifestyle im looking for too, by the way, i had read a lot of good stuff about you adam, hope to hang out with you guys some time, for sure i could learn a lot, i hope you post about more dominant and direct came, that would be amazing, anyway, this post, great, ill start trying similar stuff.
just another few questions, that was wall to wall? on the inbox that facebook gives you or in the messenger?
see ya!
POKER
I kinda had the same thoughts as Poker above in his comment about surely we should be out on the streets/in the bars playing the game, not hiding behind our computer monitors BUT…I think we all need to develop some 'facebook skills'.
Im new to PU, but most of the time I've got a number of a girl we'le end up adding eachother on facebook…and then obviously you need to continue teasing her and keeping her interested, rather than reverting back to an AFC on the computer. So I think posts like this are really useful, and I like the fact that Adam keeps his messages short-n-sweet and also, importantly, goes on to suggest meeting up again really soon. I think thats a potential problem on facebook, you could just end up becoming facebook friends rather than actually seeing eachother. A good post!
Your style of game is very counter intuitive, it makes no logical sense. Its almost like you're giving a woman every reason to walk away, but instead there is a very dramatic role reversal. She becomes the one trying to pick you up.
It is very effective because that is the exact same thing women do. Its like you modelled your seduction style to the way women approach dating. Disqualifying themselves only for the other person to qualify themselves inorder to gain rapport.
Your'e looking beyond the benefits of sex; what more can she offer you?
Personally, I've tried it, even gone as far as telling a woman i wouldn't take her number because she didn't remember my name. it worked, she begged me to take it.
This is something guys should learn about game, being attached to the prospects of having sex in quantities rather than qualities. It is a disadvantage, because it plays us right into their trap. The truth is Going for quality brings quantity, and thats a rpinciple of Game. so Game on
I'm still really new to the PUA lifestyle and "game" – I don't even know all the terms. However, I've found something that can REALLY connect you to some EXTREMELY hot women online. You say facebook, I say myspace. Whatever. It's all pretty much the same.
Here's the secret (I've found, anyway) to getting the most BEAUTIFUL women online to not only notice you, but write you back. Now, due to distances invloved, I never pursue things any further than a cursory friendship, but the point is I COULD:
When you send them an email note, you HAVE to remember that these are gorgeous women that get tons and tons of email from drooling men behaving like 14 yr olds with a hard-on judging from the public comments I see on their photos. "Wow your gorgeos" (misspelled on purpose because the comments almost always are) or "nice tits!"
Yeah. That's REAL smooth there, ex-lax. THAT'll stand out.
You've gotta let them know that you GET IT. You KNOW they get these emails.
So, you send them something like "Hey, how ya doing? I feel soooo sorry for you. You probably had to look through 100 emails from drooling Neanderthals just to get to one from me! Do these guys really think that giving you their number and telling you to "call me sometime" is gonna actually WORK? Like you don't get hundreds of those a day as it is for one, and for another is some magical faerie supposed to make you up and call some total stranger from the internet and pick THEM out of the hundreds of others that do the same thing every day? Jeez, if I got stuff like this from women all the time, I'd be disgusted with 'em all. How do you handle it?"
See?
Here, you've done several things. First and foremost, even from the little bit I know about PUA, you've just "demostrated higher value." You've used a couple of big words (Neanderthal for one) to show you DO have a brain and use it occasionally. You've also demonstrated to her that you get it – you know the emails she gets and you're disgusted by them, too. You're on HER side. It's like you're standing there talking with her in a bar (or pub for my English brethren) commenting on how lame the drooling guys are, and how sad it is. Congrats, you've just gotten inside her head, and your correspondence will stand out because of A) the higher-level of writing and intellect that went into it, and B) the tone of all the other emails she gets.
Yours WILL stand out.
Case in point: There's a model on soakmagazine.com that has a myspace page, and she's an Ohio State fan. I'm talking American football here, but it'll work for any sport. Her name is Jessica Jones. Anyhow, a couple of weeks ago, they lost BIG to Southern Cal and dropped in the rankings as a result. I emailed her:
You guys might actually win a national championship in something if you don't have to face an SEC foe LOL
To which she replied:
um bite me
See an opening here, guys? ;) I'll now copy and paste – read from the bottom up, start at "original message" and read below that, then read what's above it. That's her reply:
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Sep 12, 2008 9:11 PM
RE: OSU? lol
Yup, I was thrilled M I got beat LOL anytime they get beat I am happy..
No, Wells, will not be playing, I am very worried LOL
Thanks for the votes, and no implants on me any time soon.
—————– Original Message —————–
From: Ken
Date: Sep 12, 2008 4:47 PM
oh, would I love to LOL
hey just some good-natured ribbing. It's what we college football fans do, right? I bet you had fun last year when Michigan got whooped AT HOME by a bunch of hilbillies from Appalachian St., didn't you? Hm? C'mon…I know you did! :)
Gotta worry about the game @ USC tho. Is your RB gonna be back by then, 100%? If not it could be disaster, dear. At least the Steelers are looking good so far though!
BTW…I voted for you for Miss Internet. I like your look – don't you EVER get implants!
Waaaaaaar EAGLE!!!
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Subject:
RE: Did you see what happened to Charlie Weiss?
Body:
I saw it and hurt me to see OUCH!!!! GO BUCKSSSSSSSSS!!! They need all the help they can get Wells is not playing ugh
—————– Original Message —————–
From: Ken
Date: Sep 13, 2008 7:27 PM
do a search online and find the video clip. Probably is on YouTube by now…he got hurt on a play that went out of bounds – tore his MCL AND ACL, poor guy…
I'll be rootin' for you guys tonight! Ya neeeever know!!
good luck,
Ken
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We corresponded a few more times, but she has a little girl and is going back to school, so she stays busy. Not to mention she lives 1000 miles away. The real point of all this was to see what works and what doesn't. Now, I have only been angling for chit-chat because of the distance, again (remember, this is the USA – lots longer distances involved than in the UK – and I live in a pretty small town in South Carolina, far from any major urban centers).
The key point though is that I got her talking. Out of alllll the men (boys, I call them) that want her to talk to them – that would DIE to get just a response so they could brag about it – she emailed me. FIVE TIMES. You HAVE to stand out in the internet email crowd, be it on Facebook or MySpace or whatever.
Could be a fluke, right?
Wrong!
Take bikini model Wendy Kennedy. I know you want to hehe.
http://www.modelmayhem.com/47341
She posted a blog called "TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 1930's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's!!"
I'll skip what she posted, as it's fairly long. Here's my reply:
GREAT post, Wendy. You articulated well what I've thought for a long time.
I've been watching the NFL this afternoon – and a bit ticked that I sat Ronnie Brown on my Fantasy league after two very lackluster performances – and he only ran for 4 TDs and threw for a fifth against the New England Patriots AT Foxboro, but I digresss –
I remember when I was a kid and we only had the 3 channels and those crisp autumn late afternoons, I and the other kids in the neighborhood would go outside and play football every Sunday. I went on to play in high school…
Anyhow, you're right! I loved your post! *sigh* beauty AND brains? That would intimidate lesser men but I want to find a woman like you someday! :)
Take care, sweetie.
Ken
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Polite, pleasant…but I appealed to her MIND mostly, NOT her gorgeous body and face. She gets THAT sort of thing ALL the TIME. She even took the time to go to my page and put up a comment:
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Sep 22 2008 8:24 PM
Comment Back – Send Message – Block User
Hi darlin!
Glad you liked my bulletin!
I just wanted to come by &
show some LOVE for one of my
awesome myspace friends!
Well, you take care and have
a fabulous week :)
All the best,
*Wendy Kennedy*
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Guys, this woman is really busy, but she thought enough of what I said that she took the time to go to my page and type in a comment. Again, how many guys would give their right arm just for a simple, sweet comment from a gal like her for all the world (and their friends) to see?
As I've already said, I haven't been talking to these hot women to try to get a date because of distances, but the point is that if you take away those things, I COULD. And seeing the responses I've been getting JUST BY SHOWING THESE WOMEN THAT I "GET" IT, they would most likely be MUCH more open to me than 99% of the other guys out there. It's a GREAT way to "practice" your PUA skills; I'm thinking all you would have to do is take what I'm doing as sort of a framework and insert PUA skills and you would be in business!
My MySpace profile page is:
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=u…
So you can scroll way down the page (it's really cluttered right now) and see her comment for yourself. Also, check out the hot blonde (Rebel Barbie) on my "top 8 friends" – I forget now how we started talking but we've been friends for a couple of years now, and she'll put crazy comments up on my page all the time. She lives on the WEST coast, and I am on the EAST coast, so the distance is even greater, so friendship is all I want from her for now, but her Dad lives one state over from me, in Georgia (no Russian tanks there lol), and we've found that we have a LOT in common and may meet in person someday, if circumstances are right at the time.
I know this comment is horrendously long, but I'm talking about THREE different absolutely gorgeous women here that I've befriended online one way or another and thought I would share my experiences with you guys. Like I said, I really think I've found on my own here an "in" that you guys can take a look at and replace my approach with a PUA-type approach, and probably have some very good success. I think if I wanted to use PUA techniques after the initial connection was made, that I would be fairly successful. It's just too bad I live where I do!
I hope you all get something from all this!
Peace
Im actually trying this one right now …I will keep u posted !
I met this HB outside Cafe De Paris on the way home 2am Saturday night so I had to be very quick and got a facebook close
Facebook below
Me: Yo, did we meet outside Cafe de Paris ?
Her: hello yes we did meet at cafe de paris!!!cant believe u actually remembered my name!!!howz things??x
Today at 4:56pm
Yes, well u were a lively person !
Today at 5:24pm
You really should be careful who u chat to !
I’m alot of trouble. hehe
xx
What are people's thoughts on actually meeting people on facebook/myspace?
As I said in my comment above, I feel there is certainly a requirement to learn what I called 'facebook game' because, more often than not, we will interact with a girl we meet on a night out on facebook the next day.
But when it comes to actually meeting people on facebook and then arranging a date- it seems wrong to me. It's almost like a DLV (demonstration of lower value) because it shows that you've been browsing profiles online and it almost suggests that you're not going out to meet people.
Any thoughts guys?
I like this post, is like "how to continue interaction thru facebook" i thought it was a post about not going out and meeting the real girl but laying all day in front of the computer trying to "meet" some "Hot" "Chick" over the net, that is cool once in a while and when is like out of the blew, but to dedicate to that, i think thats kinda lame, glad to see is nothing like that!!! ;)
POKER
Some really cool stuff here.. Ken, you’re right man, being counter intuitive and demonstrating to women that you’re socially savvy enough to understand their world works ALL the time.. Not even on the internet. Please remember this when you are out in the field as well to meet some local girls!! Good think you’re trying to experiment your conversation skills!!
Thanks for sharing!
I like Adam’s approach to facebook. A chance to CONTINUE his club game and meet right away.
I personally don’t like facebook and all that stuff. I have a profile though. And since many times girls due to lack of time give me their facebook I think it’s ‘necessary’ in today’s world. But you know what? Lately I’ve been using that in the field.. We talk about facebook (when it comes up not all the time) and I get the chance to know them and also they get to know me. There are many different ways to use something in your advantage. Either directly or indirectly. But I’m not here telling you my 100% fool-proof ‘facebook-close’ or ‘facebook routine’ cause there aren’t things like that. All I’m telling you is be creative, both in the field and in your everyday life (even on facebook!! haha) Cause we learn so much when we think out of the box and on top of that we have so much fun!!
I number closed a girl the other night and set up a date the following day. This PUA stuff is the shit!