how to go for the kiss (and get it)

This one is money.

Do you get nervous when going for the kiss? Then this is for you. Because what would you say if I told you there was a way to move in slowly, confidently and powerfully and get the kiss?

You’d probably be willing to pay top dollar for that kind of dynamite information, right? You don’t have to – I’ll give it to you for free. Bet you’re glad you signed up for these emails now, eh?

First things first…

Most guys wait hours and hours and then lunge in for the first kiss. They get rejected because the girl is totally confused and, probably, freaked out. Other guys wait for the perfect movie moment to go for the kiss.

Perfect movie moments don’t exist and the kiss never comes. To guarantee you get the kiss, you need to do it smoothly.

But how? Here’s how:

1. In the ten minutes as you work up to the lip-lock, you should be touching the imminent recipient in increasingly more sensual ways.

Here’s how I do it.

First of all, I touch her arm for emphasis when I’m talking. Then, I touch her hand – a really good way is to take it when you look at a piece of jewellery she’s wearing.

Then I touch her hair – I ask her if it’s her natural colour, if she wears it up, if she’s ever cut it short or used to have it long… It doesn’t really matter what you say, just run your fingers through her hair. If she lets you do that, you’re IN.

You’re money. You can kiss her now. Stop reading. Kiss her. Do it. If you’re still not sure, smell her hair.

Then take her hand while you talk. If you have been carefully escalating your kino, she won’t mind this. Don’t stare at her hand, just take it. You’re the man here, right? – act like it. Squeeze her hand. If she squeezes back, this is another big kiss-tell. No girl squeezes back if she isn’t ready to kiss.

Here’s where you break out the sexual nerve gas: stop talking, tilt your head and look at her. Stare into her eyes. You can tell whether she’s comfortable. If she is, kiss her.

You’ll occasionally have bumps on the road, but you can get over them. What if she turns her face away when you try to kiss her? Kiss her cheek instead and then move onto her neck! She will usually turn around and kiss your lips. Most guys consider this to be a rejection and give up. DON’T! It isn’t rejection – she’s just testing you. Don’t back away. If you brush it aside in a manly fashion, she’ll respect you more and be turned on into the bargain.


Touching the girl in the lead-up to a kiss is really important. But it’s not all you should be doing. Establish a sexual vibe during the conversation too and you’ll have a powerful weapon. You’ll be unstoppable. Adding a sexual vibe makes sure the girl sees you as a potential lover rather than a friendly hairdresser. And this is
how you do it:

2. Establishing a sexual vibe as you escalate the physical contact

  • More intense eye contact
  • Slower, smoother, deeper voice
  • Look at her in a sexual way, start to look at her lips as well as her eyes and see if she reciprocates. If she does she is imagining kissing you. Go for it.

3. Sometimes, even with no work on your part, she will still want you.

When a girl wants to kiss you:

  • She squeezes your hand
  • She looks at your lips
  • She touches your chest instead of arm
  • She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking

There you have it. This stuff is golden.

Promise me one thing – promise me you’ll go out and try it. Okay?

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  1. thankyou somuchgambler i really suffered with this problem,

  2. thats really a good post! tks

  3. I am going to memorize every bit of that article and recall it when i'm in the field, because seriously, if you know the truth of it, how can you be unconfident?

  4. Hi Richard,
    Nice stuff you've been posting and mailing, but the question that popped up into my mind while reading this, is what kind of stuff you talk about while escalating kino and things.


  5. Daniel Georgi says:

    thanks alot man, the whole ting on her turning her face is a test, i had no idea, when that happend to me once i just stopped trying but i should have keep going

  6. rahul tyagi says:


  7. adryan_rezza says:

    your post really help me.

    because tomorrow is my 'battle'.

    i'll tell you how the result is tomorrow.

  8. Your the shit man! I've read tons and acted on tons but just being 1/2 way through the Natural Art/Seduction, I already know why you'll become the #1 PUA instructor! Material doesn't get any better or clearer than what you've put out AMIGO! Springer

  9. i like u very much thank u see u again my contact no 9986519873

  10. how did you do it with paris hilton?

  11. gerardo says:

    tried it with a chick who already has a bf and wow she didn't even hesitate EPIC WIN!!!
    next step porking time

  12. hi Gambler,thank’s for your advice on how and when to kiss a
    girl.i luv it

  13. Francisco says:

    thanks Gambler, great advise ,i will be sure to use them now that i know

  14. your the man

  15. thanks man for your good tips I'lle make sure that I go out there and practice to use them wisely, thanks. If they work out for me, you will be the first one to be informed, keep on with your good job.

  16. Thanks very much. I've been waiting for this, in fact I'm going to try this right away. Thanks a lot. Speak soon/

  17. SomeoneImportant says:

    Ty vm Gambler! Let's check it out :P

  18. I will try this.

  19. This kind of stuff should come natural to a man, but sometimes even after doing everything right… a woman is unpredictable. I've done all of this to a T, but a woman can change her mind based on her life's circumstances.

  20. lord vibration says:

    it really works even with 30 agers.Great stuff.Thanx

  21. IYOHA SUNDAY says:


  22. valentino di marco says:

    This is great NLP with micro kino escalation, man after watching some of ur videos i had to learn over again in comparison to traditional or other game methods, dead on brother

  23. some of the things i used to do in the field. GOD! how the fuck. it seems so simple now, yet before it was so like :/

  24. Hey.
    This stuff works and i am getting more scores.

  25. hi Gambler,thank's for your advice on how and when to kiss a
    i think it's very good because you do that in a sexual yet
    romantic way.
    i'm sure it will work well.
    thank's and send me other newsletters.bye.

  26. Hi,i tell you am impressed because im touched by the sexy ,smooth moves

  27. Thanks Gambler!!! I'll try it tonight!! :D

  28. hi, thanx for this amazing article. i guess it will work for me on all my targets…

  29. hi i will like to know is it a good thing to tell a girl that you love her and when is the right ti me to tell her ?how should you go about telling her her you are really inlove with her ?

  30. Thanks for the tips Gambler. I just got your book today and I can't wait to get the home study course. If I was working in the UK i would be in one of your workshops in a blink of an eye. Keep up the great work

  31. absolutely truth, other thing is when she search to be close enough… this smash everythin xD

  32. Thank you for the excellent advice. Will be using it this weekend!

  33. Gambler i need some important advice on something and i really need your help but it has nothing to do with kissing it's a completely different issue i have at the moment. Could you please help me?? Should i ask here or is there somewhere else where i should get your advice??

  34. Will try this tip tomorrow – my last kc was step by step: she asked me to smoke and i asked her for "lip exchange" (normaly i do not smoke) 4 minutes after she went for tonguekiss (since that time i love big lips)

  35. Hey Solved, you might like that but girls don't. Every girl I've asked wants the guy to know what to do and not ask.

  36. I still prefer the 'Would you like to kiss me?'.

    It makes me the prize to her. I don't kiss girls – they kiss me persona.

  37. maverick says:

    great article gambler, love it, however, is it possible doing this escalation and kissing in-set without moving the target from her group?


  38. Hello mate i really glade when i found this website you save me from my sadness i begin to follow your step and i want just to say you one thing thanks to you from the bottom of my heart and if i will have the chance i will come and visit you to thank you personally i hope you will shine more and more
    can i ask you for a favour mate ?

  39. Danielboy says:

    Keep um coming Gambler,this stuff really works.I'm a big fan

  40. Thanks a lot. Definitely I will try your (tips) what I learned from you, hope it will be successful.

  41. thanx this worked for me just the other day with a girl i've been after.

  42. This is a very useful article Richard , I am glad you've taken the time to publish it for us.

    I have already done this,! and funny enough, she turned her face so I kissed her and gave her a hickie for "being a bad girl", n surprisingly after that she made out with me in front of my other peers from UNI.


    you can get away with anything if you don't care who's watching you, just by doing your own things and not caring about others opinions and views..

    just takes a little confidence.

  43. thank you very much gambler love this article :D
    i promise i will try it and let you know if it work for me or not ^^.

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