After meeting nearly 400 customers, it’s become possible to categorise guys into a number of sticking points. They will either have one or many, and luckily we have a method of getting over each one. The common sticking points are:
- Fear of the approach.
- Run out of things to say and get stuck conversationally.
- Get into a long conversation and don’t know how to close.
- Get numbers but they flake.
- Get dates and girls don’t want to see them again after first one.
- Don’t know how to escalate physically.
- Girls just want to be friends.
And the answers to these are:
- Desensitisation, giving content, confidence boosting, framing the situation differently, motivation strategies.
- Improv exercises and giving content.
- Verbally leading into a number or kiss close.
- Solid number closing, text game, phone game.
- Rapport, day-2 system, status.
- Sexual tension, verbal and non-verbal sexual escalation.
- Sexual escalation, prizing.
Of course, every individual is different and it’s bad to categorise guys like that, but that’s basically it. I know that I had each of the 7 problems when I started out and each of them are relatively easy to overcome given focused effort.
