The Pussy Magnet

Dearly beloved,

It’s been a while since my last post, so for this one I would like to talk about a topic close to my heart: Polarity. More specifically, sexual polarity.

You see, one of the commonest sticking points I see with students, is the inability to comfortably behave as the alpha male. You know, the guy who leads the girl, has a commanding presence, lives by his own rules and is not one to fuck with.

I suppose, society has evolved to brand this behaviour as brash, obnoxious and even downright misogynistic, and as such we all to some extent have a tendency to suppress this behaviour as it feels uncomfortable to many. Almost to the point of apology for behaving as a man.
The fact that approach anxiety even exists is testament to how we are socially programmed away from our male polarity.

The idea of polarity is, like opposite poles of a magnet which attract, male behaviour attracts female behaviour, and this primal response is integral to the mating process.
The challenge is figuring out what polarity means in an increasingly feminised society.
If this is your sticking point, breaking it WILL be out of your comfort zone.

In nature, the alpha male is the male of the pack with the highest rank, normally associated with his physical prowess. Aggression is often a characteristic of an alpha male, but this is merely a manner of carrying oneself rather than trying to pick fights all the time as this is not usually conducive to survival. And yes, all the chicks like to go for the alpha male. Being the alpha male in nature is the ultimate status symbol.

So I’d like to highlight a number of so-called characteristic male traits, to help create a picture of masculinity.

Logical.
Cocky/Confident.
Physical.
Aggressive.
Competitive.
Sex-oriented rather than love-oriented
Controls emotions.

This is by no means an exhaustive list, but as much as we can accept that all these qualities are undeniably male, many of us have suppressed these qualities under the belief that they may be considered socially unfavourable.

Now, at this point, I don’t want groups of guys running out slapping girls on the bum and calling them “Toots,”but I would like us all to figure out where these qualities fit in the modern world.
Indeed, it is no coincidence that these qualities contribute to what many women are attracted to.

This leads me to a point of significant confusion in the understanding of inner game.

We teach students to not be dependent on outcomes and to eliminate neediness and want. Yet at the same time, we are aiming for them to go for the close.Seems like a contradiction in terms.However, we are trying to teach sexual intent, rather than focus on outcomes.

So what’s the difference?

Well, it all boils down to who you are, ya know, how you roll. If inside, you are the kind of guy who for argument’s sake, wants to get laid because it would mean kudos with your mates, then it means that you are seeking value and this repels when projected.
However, if someone gets laid a lot and that is just a part of who they are, then not only does that create a state which women will want to be a part of, but also makes their intent more natural, almost animal.

I guess then that as an inner game concept, we should be aiming to create Animal Intent. That is to tap into our instinctive drive to seek out sexual partners in the first place. Without regard to social pressures. Or being liked. Or looking cool. Or bragging rights.

And here’s the thing. Girls know it straight away when they see it. And they cannot resist it. Because it’s, you know, science.

So how do we get it?

It’s all about becoming a sexual being. Being appreciative of the purity of the sexual act. Work out what sexy is to you. Not to everyone else.Be your sexuality from the outset-this means kino, kino, kino (if you are into German cinema) and most importantly not hiding your intent when you see sexy. Be unapologetic about it. It should be projected in the way you look, the way you move, the way you treat people. It is not something that springs out at the last minute.

Now scroll back up to the list of characteristic male traits and it will become apparent that they are all products of our Animal Intent. It is also quite absurd that we have “evolved” in society to suppress many of these, as this suppression serves to complicate our social mechanisms.

Now a disclaimer. Expressing your Animal Intent is not the same as going around being a dick, a misogynist or a general sex pest. The aim is to develop your natural instincts, not a sexual harassment lawsuit. The key to this is calibration. This is hard to achieve without really following by example, so maybe use a role model. Go out a lot to find your groove. Maybe take a boot-camp. And unleash yourself..

Stay classy.

Shamwow.

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Comments

  1. It’s as simple as this: no matter how rich, clever, good-looking or charming you are, YOU will be at a severe disadvantage if you are a stranger to the girl. Girls are afraid of guys who they don’t know through a friend, or friend of a friend.

  2. I have to say from a female perspective that its a BIG TURN OFF FOR A GUY TO BE AGGRESSIVE theres a fine line between being the STONG ALPHA MALE and the ARRGRESSIVE one. Being a model and being apart of teaching males how to be that one us females find ourselfs attractive to i find that there are alot of different ways. I couldnt agree more with all that you said besides the aggressive part. GREAT artical i have to say.

    • Hmm Shayla, you’re a model and I presume you’re beautiful. I sometimes consider hitting on girls like you to
      realise that the reason I hesitate is because your kind don’t notice me, or clearly wouldn’t be expecting me to approach

  3. Humble, I'm like that too. It's like if you don't have any feelings of a higher order to the girl, it's hard to stay interested. Despite all the appreciation of good looks. Maybe if you're incredibly drunk and horny, it all comes down to the ground level – boobs, legs, etc. I haven't had any experience like that though.

  4. Thats true that most guys are really bad with women.

    Like I see guys at group hang outs stroking a girls leg obviously horney and the girl is all like >:-/

    I find it impossible that I would ever get a girl that I didnt love because it would come across in the way i behave. I dont get how some people get into casual relationships so easily. I thinks a quality your born with.

  5. humble, not all guys are into bragging. in fact as I become a better pua and have more successes I tell only my inner circle of fellow puas bout my successes to show them and help them. I also share failures because I do not succeed all the time.

    Listen to the context of so called bragging. There are also some guys who seem to view the success of us puas as bragging.

    I have seen that most guys are really really bad and it is only after learning game that I realised how bad these guys are. I feel sorry for hot women having to come across so many dooshbags. There are guys that clearly DO NOT have a clue.

    if you think guys are just bragging, you are hanging around with the wrong guys. Life is too short to tell porkies.

    there, you are not the only one who posts here now.

  6. One phenomenon I noticed is that…

    rough guys who are super macho tend to go for rough girls. I remember this guy from my old school who used to brag about his early sex life but the girls that hung around him werent hot at all.

    Also I have a belief that most of the time men either lie or exaggerate their prowess when it comes to lays. Just like that time PUA training ran a competition and selected a fake guy and I pointed out the fake qualities of the video and then they took it down.

    I went to a seminar once and the guy was like '..and the women i SLEPT!!!!! with' with a vicious masculine inflection on the word slept. I think multiple lays are part of the masculine dominance instinct to conquer territory.

    But what do I know. Im clearly the only guy who posts comments on this blog.

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