My Girlfriend Wants Me To Talk Dirty To Her In Bed… But I Don’t Like It

Girlfriend Likes Dirty Talk

Give her what she wants.

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Some women are freaks in the bedroom, they like it rough and they like you to talk to them in a dirty manner. This is all well and good… if you like it rough yourself and actually enjoy talking filthy.

But what if you don’t? What if you find it distracting when she asks you to pull her hair and tell her how good her pussy feels on your dick?

Well that’s the problem I’m going to cover today. I received an email from a guy who finds dirty talk off putting. Make sure you read all the way to the end, so you can soak up my advice.

Question from a reader

Hey Richard,

I have a problem that I need help with. My girlfriend is a bit of a kinky one in the bedroom and she likes me to talk dirty to her during sex. I’m really not into dirty talk, I may mutter a few things here and there to keep her happy but it just makes me cringe and takes all the pleasure out of it for me. It almost cheapens the sex.

I feel like telling her that I don’t want to talk dirty to her, because I don’t enjoy it. But then if I do it may make the sex worse because she doesn’t want to upset me during sex or something. Anyway I’m confused as to what I should do, can you help me out here?


My response

So you’ve found yourself a little devil in the sack have you? That’s good. What’s not good is you’re being a little bitch about it. So I’m going to break it down for you and explain why you NEED to get used to talking dirty to your girl (if you want the relationship to last) and how to do it properly without making the sex talk sound awkward.

Get used to it…

This is not what you want to hear, but it’s the truth. You girlfriend gets wet when you talk dirty in the bedroom. It makes her WANT to sleep with you more. This should be turning you on. If it’s not, then maybe you’re not as physically attracted to her as you might think.

It’s ok not to be into super kinky dirty talk, but some mild dirty talking here and there to spice things up, should be totally fine with you. So buckle up big boy, I’m going to give you the secrets to dirty talk that even YOU will be able to handle.

How dirty does she like it?

It’s important to gauge how much dirtiness you need to bring into the bedroom. To do this, you need to talk to your partner and ask her what she likes, then give it to her. There are three main categories for naughtiness when it comes to the kink. Here they are:

  • Slightly kinky: She likes the odd spank and a few one liners like “Your pussy feels amazing baby”.
  • Very kinky: Think hand ties and anal sex, mixed with “Tell me you like this cock in your arse”. She’ll love it.
  • Super kinky: Get the blind fold, nipple clamps and candle wax… because it’s about to get filthy in here. Girls like this love you calling them a slut or a whore, it’s all part of the show.

Use touch to emphasise the dirty talk

When you talk dirty it has an impact, however when you touch while saying dirty things, this will greatly increase the sexual anticipaion and make the sex 10x better. All you need to do is spank her and say “do you like that, you dirty little girl..” or lightly place your hand on her neck and say “are you a bad girl, tell me how much you love this dick”.

Tell her what you’re going to do

About 10 seconds before you do it, tell her what you’re going to do to her. This will turn her on and make her start to fantasise about how good it’s going to feel when you actually do it. You can say something like “I’m going to bend you over the bed and pound you hard…”.

What does she like the most? Tease her with that

After sex, ask her what she likes most in bed in terms of being naughty and talking dirty. This is when she’s feeling most open and comfortable with you, so be prepared for some filthy things.

When you know what she likes most, use that to your advantage and use it on her sparingly so that it has maximum effect. For example, she might like it when you are on top of her missionary and you bite her neck, whilst whispering in her ear.

Tell her what you want her to do

Not only do women love it when you talk dirty to them, they also find it very exciting when you act like a man and tell them what you want them to do. Remember, women want to be led, it’s part of their DNA. So give her what she wants by telling her what you want and then encouraging her whilst she’s doing it. Women like it when they know they are pleasing you.

You can say something like “I want you to crawl on your hands and knees, unzip my jeans and suck my dick… now”. Then tell her she’s a good girl during the blowjob and smack her ass a couple of times to keep it spicy.

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