How To Finger A Girl: 6 Proven Fingering Techniques That Will Drive Her Wild!

Buckle up big boy, this isn’t just another “how to finger a girl” guide with sissy tips… this is some serious sh*t that will make you stand out from all the other chumps out there.

How to finger a girl

Make her beg for more.

So you want to know the best way to finger a girl huh? Not a problem. I’m a pro in this area and will tell you everything you need to know to make your girl scream, groan and gasp in the bedroom.

The weirdest thing that I’ve noticed over the years is that most men have no idea how to finger girls, they just jam any finger they can up there and jack the speed up for about 20 seconds, before their arm is tired and they get bored.

Women LOVE men who know their way around woman’s body. So once you show her your new found tricks, she’ll be super pleased… trust me.

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Build the anticipation (tease her)

Build Anticipation

Remember… take it slowly.

Anticipation is so important when fingering, it will drastically help with her being able to climax, so don’t just skip over this part. It should start when you’re taking each others clothes off. Push her onto the bed and begin kissing her… slowly move down to her neck and remove her top, so she’s just showing her bra.

Now with the top off, go back to her neck and move down towards her breasts. Move past the breasts and kiss her stomach (remember, slowly) and start removing her jeans or bottoms.

She should now be in her bra and panties. Go back up and kiss her again, moving down again from the neck to the bra. Whilst kissing her chest area, take one hand and remove the bra. With the bra off, begin kissing and massaging her breasts. Lightly bite her nipples also.

After a couple of minutes, move down to her panties, slowly kissing her stomach. With both hands pull down her panties slowly. She will help you by lifting her hips. Now take a few moments to kiss the inside of her thighs, from the knee to about an inch from her pussy. Do the same on the other leg.

By this time, she should be very wet and around 10 to 15 minutes should have passed. This is where the fingering begins…

Speed control (not too fast!)

Before we get into the actual techniques, you need to keep in mind that speed is a very important factor. Most women will not appreciate a guy just going in from the start and fingering them like crazy. You need to build up speed, gauge her reaction and speed up.

Some women will guide you also, saying things like “Oh my god, that feels so good” or “Keep doing that!”. Listen to their words and their body, it will give you everything you need to get her orgasming.

Focus on the clit (80% of the time)

Focus on the clit

Don’t forget the other areas too though.

Now a lot of guys for some reason, decide to skip the clit and dive straight into the puss. This is NOT how you finger a girl. Fingering also involves playing with the clit. In fact, you need to be focusing only on the clit, about 80% of the time. Aside form the G-spot, the clit is the most sensitive part of the vagina, so it needs a lot of attention.

Remember that it’s very sensitive, actually it’s about double the sensitivity if you compare it to the penis. The penis has around 4,000 sensory nerve endings where as the clitoris has around 8,000. Interesting stuff right?

Squish the pelvic bone and clit

Ok, so let’s start with eh first technique. It’s called the squish. Take your palm and place it directly over your girls pelvic bone and clit, covering them both. With your fingers facing towards her, begin a closed hello motion. So that your hand is scrunching back and forth, rubbing her pelvic bone and clit.

You might be thinking why the pelvic bone dude? Well, it’s because if you do it right, the pelvic bone will actually stimulate the G-spot inside the vagina. So you’re getting double the stimulation, boom!

Do this for around 2 to 3 minutes. You can keep kiss the inside of her thighs too, to increase the overall tease.

The clit twiddler

After you’ve used the squishing technique, you’ll want to keep showing the clit some love. So for the next technique, you should take your thumb and forefinger. Place them over the clit and begin twiddling them back and forth (like you’re tweaking a small volume knob).

Rubbing the clit like this will be very sensitive, so keep her reactions in mind. If she doesn’t like it, then use your first two fingers and begin rubbing her clit in a circular fashion. Switch it up by gong up and down too.

Backwards stroking

Right, by now you should have been working that clit for about 10 minutes. It’s now time to stick the fingers in. If you’ve done a good job up to know, then she may have already asked you to stick a finger or two in.

Slowly insert your index finger and begin sliding it in and out. Put some pressure on the back wall of her vagina (towards the anus) whilst going in and out. After a minute, add the middle finger with your palm facing upwards and begin stroking backwards. You should feel a rough nobble inside, this is the g-spot! Keep rubbing that.

Every now and again, switch it up by pulling your fingers in and out, backwards stroking, then playing with the clit etc. You get the idea.

What are the best fingers to use?

Always the first two (index and middle). These are the longest and long fingers equals deeper penetration for the fingers (which girls love). You can also use the thumb on the clit, this works well for speed if you can get a good angle on her pussy.

How to finger a girl conclusion

The large majority of women just won’t cum if you don’t either stimulate their clit orally or finger them the right way. It’s something that all men really need to learn and master if they want to please their woman.

Make sure your nails are clean, trimmed and your hands are soft before you go ANYWHERE NEAR her vagina. Come on gents, let’s make her feel like a real woman.

And that gentleman…. is how to finger a girl.

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  1. GdragonKyle says

    Damn dude thanks a lot for the tips and a beginner like me will be a veteran some day ?

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