How To Tell If A Girl Likes You Over Text (9 Easy To Spot Signs)

When it comes to finding out if a girl likes you, it’s fairly easy to spot if you’re with her. She’ll be looking at you, smiling at you, possibly toying with her hair and reaching over and touching you.

Things might get a little more complicated, though, when it comes to figuring out if she likes you when the two of you are texting back and forth. Luckily, there are some easy-to-spot signs to help you figure things out.


Fast responses

If you text a girl and a few minutes later, she responds to your text, that’s a good sign. It usually means that she’s made you a priority in her life when she gets a text from you. Of course, if she doesn’t text you right away, that doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t like you.

After all, she might be busy at work or doing something that’s time-consuming and simply can’t take the time to respond right then. In general, though, if she’s answering your text as soon as you send it, she’s probably interested in you.

In-depth replies

Another way to determine whether or not a girl likes you when you’re texting is based on the length of her replies. If you notice that her texts to you tend to be wordy and in-depth, that’s a good sign.

It means that she’s taking the time to really put thought into what she’s texting — and it means that she really wants to impress you.

Girls who want you to know they like you really want you to know them — and if you’re interested in them, take the time to send them some in-depth replies in return.

She asks you more questions than you ask her

Well, this one is pretty clear, right? If a girl’s asking a lot of questions, that’s a pretty clear indication she likes you. (Of course, she also might be an undercover detective investigating a case in which you’re one of the suspects, but let’s not go there, okay?)

She’s asking those questions because she wants to get to know you. Here’s some helpful advice - don’t forget to show interest in her, too. She’s taking the time to find out more about you, so you can do the same for her.

She asks you about your day

So you’ve had a rough day at work and you come home to find that a girl has texted you and is asking how your day went. This is yet another indication that the girl likes you. She’s there and she’s wanting to know about your life.

She’s wanting you to share some of what’s going on in your life with her — and that’s a good thing. If a girl doesn’t like a guy, the last thing she cares about is how his day went.

She asks about your love life or your sex life (or both)

Obviously, if a girl likes you, she’s going to ask about your love life. How else is she going to know whether or not you’re available?

Quick Note

If you’re unattached and she likes you, talking about your love life (or lack of it at the moment) can lead to the suggestion that maybe the two of you could go out some time.

If she asks you about your sex life, there’s literally no way in the world she doesn’t like you. Plus, if she’s asked you about your sex life, you have the added bonus of being able to ask her about hers. This is a perfect time to discover what little turn-ons she has that you can use to your advantage.

Emojis are all over the place

One of the greatest inventions when it comes to texts are emojis. If a girl texts you and there’s a winking emoji or a heart emoji, that speaks volumes - without her actually having to say a thing.

If you’re on the receiving end of a lot of emojis, the odds are very good that you’re dealing with a girl who definitely likes you - or else, she’s got a broken keyboard that randomly spits out emojis.


Okay, so you and the girl are texting back and forth. At some point, the conversation usually starts to wear a little thin. If she likes you, she’s going to pick up the ball and keep things going.

She’s spending time with you via the texts and she’s going to want that time to continue. When that happens, do your part and put some effort into keeping things moving.

This is the point where you can spend a little bit of time and effort into finding out more about her. This way, you’ll learn more about her and she’ll be flattered that you’re actually taking the time to find out more about who she is.

Flirting and teasing

If you’ve noticed her texts to you are getting more and more flirty and she’s teasing you, that’s a very good sign. Girls are not known for teasing and flirting with guys they’re not interested in.

When you notice that the two of you are bantering back and forth, you’re definitely establishing a connection there.

Hinting about things to do together

Let’s say that you’ve mentioned that you like working out. Suddenly, you’re getting texts from a girl and she says that she’s been meaning to get some exercise time in and suggests that maybe the two of you could hit the gym together and work out.

Maybe you’ve mentioned that you like old movies and she texts you about a retrospective of Hitchcock movies playing downtown.

She’s signaling that she likes you and that she wants to share something with you.


Yet another way that a girl is going to let you know she likes you is if she starts to send you texts about her playlists. 

Quick Note

The purpose of this is she’s inviting you into sharing her taste in music. In some cases, the playlist will actually tell you everything you need to know about what she’s thinking about when it comes to you.

If you notice there are a lot of love songs about being together in her playlist, that’s a good sign. On the other hand, if her playlist contains a great deal of death metal, you might want to be advised she might not be someone that you want to piss off.

Videos and memes

When your texts from the girl contain a lot of video links and memes, she’s making sure the two of you are establishing a connection. When you get those, make sure you respond to them.

It lets her know that you’re glad that she’s giving those pieces of herself to you and it will definitely make her aware that you’re being receptive to what she’s trying to build between the two of you.

Photos of herself... yes, another selfie

If you suddenly notice that you’re getting pictures of her, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know she’s interested in you.

Oh, sure, the picture she sends might be of her holding up her adorable little puppy, but don’t think for one minute that she hasn’t taken the time to make sure that she looks her best — even as she’s going for that whole “Oh, gosh, I can’t believe I sent that picture to you. My hair’s a mess” vibe going on.

In today’s world, girls have a whole range of possibilities to choose from when it comes to guys. There’s no doubt about that, right?

So, if you find yourself on the receiving end of a bunch of texts from a girl, there’s no need for you to try to figure out whether or not she likes you.

Here’s a hint

If she’s texting you, she’s interested. Having said that, the next move is yours. If you like this girl and she’s put herself out there to let you know she’s interested, there’s no point in putting things off.

Game on, pal — game on.

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