How To Attract Asian Women: A Simple Guide To Meeting And Dating Asian Women

More of a western Asian girl.

Who the hell wants to learn how to attract Asian women?! Quite a few guys actually…

I’m expecting this topic to raise a lot of questions and also controversy as Asian girls seem to be on the top of a lot of fetish lists for guys these days.

Not only are they some of the most exotic and attractive women in the world, they are also very clean, polite and respectful… which can’t be said for a lot of western women.

Today I’m going to run through several tips which I’ve used to meet, attract and seduce Asian women of all kinds, both in their home country and in other counties.

Let’s get some Asian beaver!

Two types of asian girls

There are two VERY different kinds of Asian women in this world. The home grown Asian girl and the Westernised Asian girl.

  • Western asian girls – Brought up in a very western culture such as the USA or UK, they have an eclectic mix of friends… black, white, etc. These girls are much tougher than home grown girls, they are harder to crack and have a little bit of an attitude because they have been hounded by guys for a while, especially if they are smokin hot.
  • Home grown asian girls – Brought up in their hometown (Japan, China, Korea etc) and adopt the culture, which is much more strict, respectful and timid. They are fully immersed with their own race, so dating another race is usually a grey area. They will also be extremely shy and not used to the western style of dating.

Why do most asian girls only date asian guys?

This is usually down to the fact that the parents don’t want their children to date other races. Obviously this isn’t a solid rule in every household but it’s what I’ve experienced when talking to a ton of Asian girls from all different parts of the world.

Even though a lot of them will grow up wanting to date other races, they will always go back to their “comfort zone” which is the Asian guy.

How to pick up asian girls

These techniques won’t work on every Asian girl, but they will work on a large number of them. So gauge the interactions and change your game based on the girl.

  • Be dominant and direct – Asian girls are naturally (usually) quite timid due to their strict upbringing, so they really respond well to a firm and authoritative manner, even more so than the average western woman. It’s important to be very dominant and direct, but also respectful at the same time. When you are approaching them, be persistent as they sometimes won’t hang around too long to hear what you have to say.
  • Take your time – Sorry guys, most Asian women won’t give it up on the first night, so you need to work for it over a few weeks. Take them for a coffee, get to know them, build deep levels of rapport and then begin sexually escalating heavily on the 3rd meetup.
  • Build a deep connection – Asian girls love the whole fairy tale story because they are very romantic and soppy at heart, so concentrate on building a strong connection with them.

Best places to meet asian women

There are plenty of places to meet Asian girls, here’s just a handful:

  • Their country… duh – What’s the point in waiting for the right Asian girl to come along, just get over to their country and have your pick dude. Read up on the best places, do your research and take a little holiday.
  • Your social circle – Your social circle can bring you so many women it’s ridiculous, not to mention Asian women. The best way to meet them is by befriending Asian guys, as they will always know a few women.
  • Asian bars and clubs – Google bars and clubs in your city that are notorious for an Asian crowd. They won’t be angry that you’re there, it’s like you rolling into a gay bar, they won’t exactly kick you out for not being Asian.
  • University campus – There are a growing number of Asian women on college and university campuses, so these are always great places to pick them up.

Never do the following

Damn, she is fine.

There are certain things you should NEVER do when around Asian chicks, so take note:

  • Tell her you have a “thing” for asian girls – This is the lamest thing you can ever say. It sounds weird she knows you want her for sex, so don’t say it.
  • Put her on a pedestal – It’s important to treat all women the same, otherwise you’re going to treat them differently to other women, which obviously makes you look needy.
  • Talk about Asian stereotypes – Talking about Geisha girls or strict parents is boring and falls under the “no go” stereotypes, not to mention they are extremely frustrating to her as she’s heard them a thousand times before.
  • Ask what nationality she is – Don’t ask where she’s from, also assume. It shows that you’re not like every other dumb guy.
  • Impress her with stupid Asian related “facts” – Do you think she cares about how many bicycles there are in Beijing? Of course not, so don’t reel of useless facts, they will just deter her.
  • Be too shy or reserved – Remember, when she doesn’t respond it’s not because she doesn’t like you, it’s because she’s shy, so you need to be the dominant one.

So there you have it, that’s how to attract Asian women. They are beautiful and very thoughtful in the bedroom, so well worth the effort.

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Comments

  1. Asian girls are cute respecfull and loyal, not forget very femine and lady like.
    Lets remember as for me I look white even though im half spanish as spain not hispanic or latino just as they dont like to be called asian. Me im attracted to japanese woman for their values plus they are the most beautiful other than chicana woman.
    You just have to find common ground with any woman plus mutal attraction is always a must, but the sure way into any girls heart is to make her laugh sence of humor is attractive plus always be gentleman and you cant go wrong.

  2. I’ve hammered away at chinese, Taiwanese, Korean, Malaysian girls, they are all “dead fish” in bed, term my asian friends use. none were westernized, all foreigners, asian girls do like white guys make no mistake, they are very curious and find us attractive, I’ve never received good head or had great sex with any of them, not like with white and Spanish girls, but some have really tight boxes something I rarely encounter with a white girl and never with Spanish girls.

    • Yeah Mike, you are right about the dead fish in bed. I spoke to my Chinese wife about this, and, her and her friends said, “it is the mans job”. They are absolutely crap in bed. Did you find the kissing just as poor? And the disgusting foul breath? Or am I just , one of the luky ones?
      I think all of these things are a bit of hard work for them as they can be lazy. You know, only light exercise such as walking etc and a lot of sleep and rest. Let us not speak of their love of themselves that prevails from morning till night.

  3. hahaha :D

    It is all the old story.

    Unmanly “men” searching for clues and tricks how to get girls. Trying to categorize them. Trying to understand them to make it all better calculable. But the funny thing about women is: They are all the same around the world yet they are all different. There is no trick to get them. You must be am man thats all. Be dominant and react intelligent and fast on their behaviour. Not trying to “control” the situation that is for cowards.

  4. So question if i go to japan do i have to know how to speak japanese in order to talk to or flirt with japanese girls?

  5. asian_guy says:

    Here’s some more PUA advice for the non-Asians trying to pick up Asian girls: Go for the ugly and fat ones.

    Also, to non-White Americans trying to get Asian girls, you have to learn to treat Asian men respecfully. I state this one specifically because all White American men in today’s America are about to get round up, hog-tied, and teeth smashed in by all Asian men for downplaying their confidence and attempted brainwashing our women for decades.

    We could use some help from anyone else who’s FED UP with White Americans.

    • omg canada says:

      Yeah, this isn’t racist at all because its against white people, eh? You’re just upset that Asian women prefer masculine men and Asian men are not very masculine. Sorry bro

      • asian_dude says:

        omg canada,
        u r clueless. i am asian here in md, know probably about half the asian girls here and have dated many of them. Most of them tell me they prefer asian guys, u just don’t know it since you maybe know one or two. i think whites are jealous bc asians are one of the few races who pretty much outsmart them in everything. girls are more attracted to intelligence and humor than just muscles. i’ve even seen some of my white friends haplessly try to hook up with my asian female friends, and if they do wind up with them, they are usually the leftover ugly ones.
        ciao.

        • John Freeman says:

          Please plenty of famous cute asian girls like Brenda Sung and Lucy Liu have dated white guys. You are jealous and it’s sad. Asian men are hurting themselves because asian women wont want to date asian men anymore who act this pathetic.

        • I am a Black American guy and I have a lot of Asian friends and I am bilingual in Japanese and English and was stationed over seas in East Asia when I was in the navy.
          This post is all wrong about Asian girls. You approach with respect like any other woman and when you get to know eacher they WILL let you know if you are interested. They guy who wrote all this must have been around Asians enough.

        • seriously, i agree with you but im going to hold my comments to prevent being called racist. im mixed race by the way.

    • Do not be racist and stereotypical about whites. By the way, I am an European , not American. They are very few Asian girls in my country and they do not get “brainwashed ” like you suggest they do in the USA. Our men respect women…

  6. it’s really hard to underestimate just how different asian-american girls are from asia-asian girls. There’s almost no similarity, especially if they lived in the US their entire life. I usually find that white guys are more attracted to asian-american girls (think Lucy Liu) while asian guys are more attracted to asia-asian girls or white girls. Having lived abroad in Asia so many years, one of the most attractive things to me is how cute and fashionable some girls are, no matter their race. It’s just an attitude about being feminine that’s so attractive. A lot of American girls think it’s not cool to be so feminine, maybe it’s more cool to be “tough” and “sexy”, which I don’t like so much but whatever, we have our own unique culture. =)

  7. Thank you! Very helpfull

  8. I’ll be honest, loved the pics, liked your advices. thanks for wirtting your ideas, really aprreciated!!!

  9. Marc van Velsen says:

    Damn those Chinese girls are so HOT I have had many in China!

  10. I’m going to live in China next year.

    Thanks for these advices ! !

    I discovered this website at the right moment/

  11. sweet post man, i love asian and there are loads in the city i currently live!! So sweet in every sense

  12. Ben Trafford says:

    Great post. I bloody love asian women!

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