Got the number but she just ain’t responding?
Erm… well there are two possible explanations for this… the first is that you didn’t build enough rapport/attraction with her and the second is that your opening text was so painfully boring that she just threw the phone out of the window in absolute disgust.
The bad news is that if you failed to build enough rapport with her and didn’t spike any attraction, the likelihood is the number she gave you is either a fake or she just won’t respond.
A popular topic that I’m seeing right now is “what type of PUA text openers” should you be using to not only grab a girls attention, but also intrigue her enough that she just HAS to respond to you.
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What’s the aim of a “PUA text opener”?
The aim is to get her texting you back, whether it’s been awhile since you both last spoke OR you’ve just got the digits and you want to meet her again.
So today I’m going to cover two areas.
1. Some pre-written openers that have been proven to work… funny, teasers, shockers etc
2. What you should NEVER send to a girl as an opener
Cool, let’s move on then…
A bunch of PUA Text openers you can use
Shock and surprise
The aim of this text is to add a sense of urgency, so that she will text you back within minutes of receiving the text.
- “Woah! You will never guess what just happened to me…“
- “Haha… I’ve just seen the funniest thing ever…”
- “Oh man, I’ve just experienced THE craziest thing…”
The aim of this text is to make her smile/laugh as soon as she reads the text, putting her in a good mood and associating that feeling to you.
- “So I thought I just saw you, and went up to say hi, but it turned out it was this mexican girl”
- “Knock knock…”
- “Hey princess, I Just came back from the aquarium and I saw the cutest fish there…it reminded me of you”
- “I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won’t let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?”
The aim of this text is to playfully tease her so that you can start to build sexual attraction/tension before meeting in person.
- “How’s my favorite little brat doing?”
- “I just made you open your phone for no reason…looks like I got you in check =]”
- “Girls are gross… “
What you should never send to send to a girl as an opener
Here are some common text openers guys send that are cringe worthy and just won’t get you anywhere with her:
- “Hey you! How’s it going? x”
- “Whatsup little lady, been a while… how have you been? x”
- “Yo, are you free this week to meetup?”
- “Hey, was just thinking about you and thought I’d say hi x”
Texting can be an art on it’s own, if you’re naturally witty and funny then you can get away with a lot in a text and quite easily setup a string of dates or even get the girl over to your place. I’ve done that myself.
But texting is nowhere near as important as the interaction itself, it’s just a handy tool you can use to keep the interaction going without actually being there.
So there you have it, a bunch of very cool PUA text openers. Have any of your own that you want to add? Leave a comment below dude…