Wanna learn how to approach a group of girls without the possibility of rejection?
Cool, I’ve got a few tips for you.
Now this approach can work whether you’re in a bar, nightclub… even a coffee shop. Basically wherever you see a group of girls that you want to approach these tips will work.
I know some guys would never think of ever approaching a group of girls… but here’s why you should. It will make you appear WAY more confident to girls and other girls in the bar/club will see you as high status because of pre-selection.
Quick Note: My Stealth Attraction techniques work perfectly in these types of situations, watch this video to learn how I use them in a set.
Non-verbal communication (Forcing an IOI)
To initiate an approach I would first try a non-verbal approach and force an IOI. To do this all you do is simply catch her eye, hold your drink up with a smile, maybe nod your head, even wave at her.
The aim of the non-verbal approach is to get a positive reaction. A smile or shy head tilt, something that will let you know that she is into you.
Once you get a good reaction, you can then approach the group with the intention of speaking to her.
The verbal approach
Use any opener to start the conversation with the group, something like… “hey girls… are you talking about me?” The will say “no” and then you say “Why not?” with a smile.
After a few minutes of chit chat, you need to direct your focus on the girl that you like and want to continue a conversation with.
When you start speaking to her, her friends will eventually speak amongst themselves and let you carry on speaking to her. Providing there are no cockblocks, you will be able to isolate her at some point.
Rules for approaching a set
- Approach immediately – When you see a group of girls and you notice one girl you like, approach them immediately and don’t think about it.
- Take control – When a friend tries to take over the conversation and muscle you out, make it a point to lead the interaction so that you are in control.
- Grab a wingman – If the group is too large you might want to get your wingman to help you after a couple of minutes, just to take the heat off you a bit and allow you to focus on a couple of girls.
So that’s how you approach a group of girls dude. Let me know what you think in the comments below…