Becoming a pick up artist (someone who’s very good at attracting and sleeping with women) means you need to master a handful of pick up artist techniques.
Huh? What do you mean pickup artist techniques?
Well I mean a bunch of tried and tested openers, one-liners, closers and tips that were designed and refined to help you build attraction with women.
They cover every area of attraction, from the open to the close and everything in between.
So the better you are at each of these techniques, the more chance you have of pulling women… a whole load of women if you want.
How to use pick up artist techniques
The best way to use these techniques is to practice them in-field on all types of women, as much as you possibly can.
For example, if you’re at work Monday to Friday, try them out in your lunch break every day. Then on the weekends dedicate more time to make them work for you.
You basically want to get to the point where you hit certain hot spots with women and know exactly when to use a certain technique… this does come with practice though.
The 8 pick up artist techniques you need to master
These shouldn’t be used in order, they are just ordered in terms of opening to closing. So the way you open a girl in a club would be different to how you would open her in the street.
Use each technique based on the situation you are in.
1. Stop and shock
Used in day game more than anywhere, but can also be used in-between clubs and bars also. This technique helps you stop a girl so you can grab her attention and start a conversation.
Simply, walk beside her and then jog slightly in front of her with your hand up signaling her to stop, as you do so you can say “Excuse me, I just have to tell you something…”.
She’ll stop and listen, so make sure your follow up line is good.
2. The pre-selection
Known to PUA’s as the best way to grab a girls attention in bars or clubs, but also used in general as a way of girls chasing after you. Pre-selection happens when you appear to be the most desirable male in a group.
For example, if you’re in a picture with two other very attractive women, you’re all smiling and seeming to have a great time. Women will find you more attractive, than if you were with a group of guys.
So start engineering your social circle so it has more attractive women and high status males who help with showing that you’re a high status guy yourself.
What you will find is once one girls finds you attractive, other girls will follow suit.
3. The direct opener
Perfect for day and night game. The direct opener shows you are a dominant, alpha and confident guy who doesn’t hold his intentions back. Women find this incredibly attractive.
Just walk up to a girl and say “Hey, I just saw you from over there and had to come and say hi, because I think you’re incredibly cute”.
4. The in-direct opener
This should only be used if you’re scared to use direct openers. Even though they are less effective, they can still work in terms of breaking the ice and warming up the conversion.
You could open a girl and say “Excuse me, I’m meeting a friend and he said he’s outside Leicester Square tube station, do you know where that is by any chance?”.
5. Assumption building
Hooking the interest and building attraction within a conversation is crucial. Where most guys fail is by asking too many questions, so you need to flip that on it’s head and assume rather than ask.
If you said “You’re from Sweden right?” if you get it right, she’ll be taken back by how insightful you are, but if you get it wrong, it’s more interesting to her, than if you were to say “So where are you from”.
No interview questions… please!
6. Kino escalation
Always be kinoing during a conversation. It helps to build trust and comfort quickly, it also builds attraction.
The moment you start speaking to her, touch her arm or shoulder to initiate kino. Don’t touch her for longer than a couple of seconds each time because it will come across as creepy.
7. Sexual dialing
Sexual escalation is even more important than kinoing. It’s designed to arouse a woman and make her think of you in a sexual way as opposed to just a friend.
Simply keep kinoing her but in more sexual places, like her stomach, legs face and waist. Don’t assume she doesn’t like being touched, just keep touching until she pulls away or says something.
Attraction isn’t built all in one go, it’s built by a series of spikes. So along with the kinoing and sexual dialing you want to throw in a few attraction spikes, also known as qualification.
The way to do this is easy. Just disagree with her at some points during your conversation. If she says “Oh yeah I’m in town for a few weeks I love this place”, you would say “Oh cool, I’m not actually keen on this place because…”
If you agree with everything she says, it’s boring, predictable and not attractive.
9. Number close
So after all the work is done, you need to number close or instant date close her. Either one is fine, but still takes a little practice to nail it comfortably.
For the number just say “Ok cool, so listen I need to go but we should hang out sometime (pause) what’s your number, I’ll text you”.
That should be enough.
For an instant date, you can say… “Hey, what are you doing now? I mean I have 10 minutes before I need to go but we should go for a coffee if you have 10 minutes spare?”
Final word on pickup artist techniques
Practice, practice and practice some more.
The more work you put it the easier they will get. I would recommend you choose a few of the techniques, remember them and work on them for a few weeks rather than doing all of them at once.
Want more advanced techniques that will take your game to the next level? Watch this video.
What’s your favourite technique?