9 Simple But Very Effective First Date Tips For Men… Never Experience A First Date Disaster Again

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I’ve got some very cool first date tips for men that will have her itching to meet you again because she’s never been on a first date like it!

I used to be terrible on first dates and made all the classic mistakes a lot of guys do… you know, running out of things to say, taking the girls to the wrong kinds of places, never really knowing how to escalate… it was a disaster.

But over the years, I’ve developed a few very simple but very clever rules if you like, that basically increase my chances of having a great first date and either taking them home that night or ensuring that they want to meet me again soon.

Today I’m going to give you those EXACT same tips.


Arranging the date

A lot of guys tend to screw up before even getting on the date, because they didn’t follow a few simple steps to solidifying the date itself. Here’s what you need to do:

  • Find out her plans for the next week and when she’s free.
  • Nail down the date, place and time so it’s concrete, this will dramatically decrease your flakes.

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The date itself

When you’re on the date, there are a few important things you need to do to make sure it goes as smoothly as possible.

  • Daytime dates are harder, require more conversion and there is no help with alcohol. It puts more emphasis on the interaction so you need to work harder than if you were in a bar at night. Go for a walk, don’t be boring and sit in a coffee shop.
  • Ask questions: Does she like traveling? If she could wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow where would it be? What did she want to be when growing up? All questions that are interesting and make a better conversation than the usual crap.
  • Within the first few seconds of meeting her, you need to set the tone. Take her hands, give her a kiss and lead her with your arm around her. Take her hand when you cross the road, be a gentleman. You’re not friends meeting, so you must create a sexual interest.
  • Night time dates, find out what she likes and choose a place that’s interesting. You need to go and scope it out before the date, look for a couch, low music and make sure it’s not too busy.
  • Include a few key elements to make the date enjoyable… get to know her more, make her laugh and just relax, be comfortable, that’s the key.
  • Keep escalating and think about sexual tension. The best tension is created from those quiet moments that happen naturally in the conversation, so use them as a positive.

Common questions

What if she doesn’t respond to the kino touching and me escalating?

Just keep pushing with the kino escalation until she becomes more relaxed in your presence. Don’t be forceful, just have a reason to touch her during conversation so she gets used to it.

She flaked. Now what?

If she didn’t respond to your texts or flaked last minute then it’s because you didn’t build enough interest during your first interaction. Give it a few days, then call her… build some rapport, make her laugh and then arrange a date on the phone with the specifics so she can’t flake.

That’s it dude… some simple first date tips for men that I use personally. Now go out and put them into practice!

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  1. My man gambler!
    usually I don’t have an issue with gaming aspects but I can’t figure this one out.. who should pay the first time. I hate chicks who take that for granted so while texting I let it come up that one time this girl was really entitled and turned me off which lets them know ehere o stand on this. Give me your 2 cents bro.



  2. Pete Zephyr says

    A bit of a cheeky attitude can help you make her laugh and make it more relaxed for both of you. Some more questions if you run out of things to say:
    – What’s something that would shock you if I did it now?
    – What was your favourite TV show as a kid? Do you remember the theme song?
    – Is kissing cheating?
    – When we get married, how many kids are we going to have? What will we call them?
    – When was the last time you wet your pants?

  3. WOW great tips i actually followed everything and it worked out well for me but i didn’t get a kiss or go for a kiss. do you think that ruins or makes her think negative of the date. and should i focus on getting a kiss on the second date?

  4. Always Cool strong easy and effective steps ..you are the best

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