4 Psychology Books That Will Seriously Improve Your Game With Women

A peak into a woman’s mind.

Female psychology.

Woah… are you for real? Who cares, isn’t that just a can of worms that will overcomplicate the mindset of a PUA or player and make him think too deeply about chicks?


But as a guy who wants to get better with women, understanding how they tick can only be a good thing right?

Ok so, yes women are illogical, sometimes irrational, over emotional and bat shit crazy… BUT believe it or not there is a pattern to their psychology that us men can learn about and use to our advantage.

Once you fully understand what it is a woman wants in a mate from an evolutionary standpoint, you will start to see WAY more success and you’ll stop second guessing your actions.

So enough with the reasons why I think you should read this stuff, let’s move onto the 4 books that will change the way you think about the female brain.

There’s some deep sh*t here fellas, so if you’re more interested in the top layer stuff like techniques and tricks… then move on playa.

The best female psychology books you must read

1. Sperm wars

This book has been mentioned a ton of times to me over the years. The main idea behind this book is to explain the difference between men and women when it comes to sex and procreating.

Men are more likely to hold women in high regard in the looks department and almost obsess over them, whereas women are more inclined to choose a partner based on mating potential “genetics”.

Check out the book.

2. The female brain

This book delves much deeper into the mind of a woman and goes into detail on why women do what they do, what the reasoning is behind their choices and how they operate on a core level subconsciously and consciously.

Very interesting when it comes to dating, mating and the details that most guys would look over. Do yourself a favour and read this one last as it’s a little too on the intense side :)

Check out the book.

3. The red queen

This is a book that will take you far beyond any other book and into an evolutionary look at how human minds have survived and evolved over the years.

It talks about why women are more likely to conceive with a one night stand rather than a long term lover, how men and women differ psychologically when it comes to beauty and if we really are that much more advanced than our ape ancestors.

Check out the book.

4. The mating mind

Another look at how the human mind has evolved over the years. This book offers another side to how society has been shaped through culture, morals, language and beliefs.

Most interestingly of all, the author writes about Darwin’s theory of sexual selection, which is probably the best part of the book.

Check out the book.

So there you have it. I’d be interested to know if there are any other pua books that you guys have read and recommend.

Also I wouldn’t take these psychology books too seriously, it’s a good idea to have a basic understanding of the female mind. I think if you went any deeper than that, you’d drive yourself nuts :)

Let me know in the comments below…

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  1. These books will actually screw you up mentally big time. If “genetics” is the be all end all, then no matter what “Game” you learn will not help you. To the contrary, these books actually refute the PUA mantra that game is the
    “game is the great equalizer”. its not. If its all about genetics and somekind of inherent programming, then one is a slave to their DNA and there is nothing you can really do about except maybe make more money or score a #1 hit record.

    • Genetics isn´t as limited a concept as your answer is implying. In other words, it not only refers to desirable physical characteristics, but rather attitudes and actions that would be inherent in a good genotype quality. Such men are called naturals, or “3 percenters”,. This moniker refers to roughly how often this quality man occurs in nature. It is precisely our higher human brain function that necesitates that our genteic quality be reflected in our attitutudes and behaviors. Lower primates lack this aspect to their genetic quality because it is not necessary: they don´t have the higher brain function, so physcial characteristics take on a higher and primary importance. Women are evolved to pick up on cues in your attitudes and behaviors that will denote your genetic quality. Female attraction is what occurs when certain attraction switches are flipped when she detects these deirable behaviors. This is all proven science.
      It is precisely because of our higher brain function that allows us humans to identify these attraction switches and why they exist. That means that flipping these switches can be taught. And it is. That is also why game really is indeed the great equalizer- it puts you on a level playing field with the “naturals” out there. This is also proven.
      So, these books don´t refute the PUA mantra, as you call it. On the contrary, they actually confirm it.
      Good luck, and happy hunting.

  2. Matt Powell says

    Yo am reading all four of these books at the moment. Quite useful for being able to relate to women and the fact that as they are so hormonal they inevitably live subject to very strong emotions. What’s clear is that in addition to being a leader and confident, to date a 10 you need to have your career handled and be an interesting guy with a life outside of game.

  3. and 50 shades of grey i hear is a good one for how women think about sex

    • 50 shades of gray is read by females for the romance in it. but after asking every female i know they usually say that the book is “slow” or is not as good plot wise. but is is still a good book to understand the underlying nature of women that you don’t usually think is there.

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