11 Surprisingly Good Second Date Ideas That Any Girl Will Go Nuts Over

Ok so you’ve been on a first date with a girl you really like and you want to see her again, now what? Well you need to setup a 2nd date also known as a day 2 and think of some good second date ideas so she won’t get bored.

Easy enough right?

Well apparently not!

I get so many guys asking me “Hey Rich, I need some good second date ideas, I really like this girl and I don’t want her to lose interest… where should I take her?!”

So today I thought I’d share my tips for great locations and ideas that will keep you going for many dates, you’ll never be lost for ideas again!

Good Second Date Ideas

These ideas will last you a LOOOOONG time dude.

11 killer second date ideas

Obviously the ideas are endless and there are tons of things you can do on a second date (and a first date) with a girl. But here’s a bunch of things I’ve done in the past with girls that have proven to be successful for me…

  • Bar or club – Obvious I know, but… you need to find a night that is a little bit different to the other nights. A night where a special event is being held or somewhere that isn’t the same as all the others.
  • Smoke shisha – I love taking girls to Shisha bars in town, you can order food, sit on a comfy couch or big cushion and just get really comfy with her.
  • Spa or swimming pool (only if she’s confident with her body) – Yes some girls will not be comfortable with this, so you need to ask the girl only if she’s smoking hot and obviously not self conscious about her body.
  • Casino, take a small amount of money… quite a cool situation, she might not have tried it before and it’s great fun when you actually win. You can spend the winnings on a good night straight after the casino.
  • Wine tasting – Interesting because most girls haven’t done it before and it’s something that other guys wouldn’t have introduced her to either.
  • Yoga, dance or any other class – If you’re already going to a class of some sort like I do, then you should invite her along. Say it’s something you think she’ll like.
  • Walk in the park – There are events that run in some parks which are cool to take girls too, like Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park or the zoo in Central park. A little cliche I know, but it’s better than going to a boring coffee shop or bar.
  • Go carting or bowling – If she’s an active girl, then these types of dates are awesome and she’ll enjoy them way more than just eating at a restaurant or going to the flicks.
  • Karaoke – Does she like to sing? Might be a good idea to take her to a popular Karaoke bar… you could invite some friends and ask her to do the same if you feel a little strange about it.
  • Visit Trip Advisor and look at the local tourist attractions in your area, there’s always some good ideas in there, that you both wouldn’t have tried before.
  • Cook for her – Drop a few hints on the first date that you’re a great cook and say that, it would be a good idea for her to try a new dish you’re learning how to cook.

Ask her what she likes to do!

Duh! I have no idea why guys forget to do this, but you need to ask her what are her interests and passions… take a mental note when she tells you and then arrange something that you know she’ll enjoy the next time you meet.

So that’s it guys, very simple second date ideas but also very effective if you play it right.

Do you have any other ideas that have worked for you in the past on a day 2? Let us know below…

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  1. great post man

  2. Nice, very informative. Wine tasting is a superb choice. Gives you a classy frame and also gets her drinking. Great advice.

  3. Hi Rich, Some cool ideas here. Thanks for that. I especially like the idea of smoking shisha and go-carting and the focus on doing something that’s an activity so the date becomes an experience and puts less pressure on the conversation. BTW, what do you suggest for a first date? I guess I must have missed that post.

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