Too Proud to Beg? How to Nab Sexy Nude Selfies From Girls (Without Begging!)

Here’s the deal. Up to 33 percent of people between the ages of 18 and 24 admit to sending at least one sext in their lives. Whether it’s a text or a video, it’s always fun to get a girl to send you nudes.

Hot girl taking a naked selfie.

Want nudes like this?

Not sure how to get nude selfies? If so, I’m here to help.

Let’s be honest: what guy doesn’t love getting sexy nude selfies? Well today you’re going to learn how to get a girl to send nudes without having to grovel (yes, it’s possible!).

The Do’s and Don’ts of How to Get Nudes

If you’re curious about how to get nudes fast, you’re in good company. Nowadays, sending nudes between social circles is extremely popular. While getting nudes from girls is easier said than done, that doesn’t mean that it is a totally impossible mission.

Have you just met someone that you really like? Maybe they’re in your social circle or you just matched on Tinder.

While it might be tempting to ask them to send nudes right away, it pays to wait a little while. That’s because you actually have to build the trust of the person before they decide to press the “send” button.

So, how can you get your hands on a legit nude?

A guy scrolling on his smartphone in dim lighting.

Get more sexy selfies from a girl than you can handle.

I’m glad that you asked. Simply put, no one woman wants to be asked to send a nude period. It needs to be natural.

Also, sending a “dick pic” of your own first is not the way to get the job done. In fact, don’t be surprised if a girl blocks your number after pulling this immature move. This plan might end a backfiring in your face and you could even see YOUR nude online.

In general, most women don’t find it cute to receive a random nude from a guy they barely know. It’s creepy.

Instead, try sending her a more casual text instead, like these:

  1. “Hey… did I just see you on the subway?”
  2. “It’s the weekend, I need to binge on Netflix, what’s your top recommendation?”
  3. “I need to ask you a question. Are you a cat or dog person? It’s important.”

As you can see, these questions are kinda silly, but they get her attention and aren’t creepy in any way.

Once the vibe is right, you can take it from there. If you notice that she is actually flirting with you, then chances are that she probably likes you (at least a little bit). At this point, you should definitely wait to see where you want to take things.

IMPORTANT: You need to decide if this girl is someone you’re interested in dating or you just want to sleep with. If it’s the former, then asking for nudes is pointless (unless she sends them without you asking).

How to Get Her to Text Nudes (your mini guide)

In case you didn’t know, not every woman is absolutely thrilled about taking a nude in the first place. So, if you think that every woman has an album full of nudes that they are willing to share with anyone who asks, you’d be dead wrong.

Girl wearing sexy lingerie in bed.

Oooo, so sexy.

While some girls are more than willing to send you a sample of their nude photo collection, others would simply prefer to skip the idea altogether and might even be a little pissed that you asked.

If she is not into it from the start, don’t pressure her to do it. Instead, give her space and time to do it until she feels like she might change your mind.

Remember: It’s WAY easier to get a new girl than it is to repair a screw up with a current or old girl. So if you piss her off by asking for nudes, she’s already put you in the “not gonna bang” category.

Already have a good relationship with the girl you’re talking to?

If that’s the case, then awesome. I highly recommend that you slip in some “dirty talk” at this time and she seems like she would be receptive to it. Don’t worry, you’ll know immediately if she’s not feeling it.

However, if she returns the favor, then there’s nothing wrong with continuing your sexting convo for as long as you want to. Who knows – you might just get a hot picture from it.

At the same time, it’s not a good idea to expect any woman to send nudes simply because you asked them to.

This sort of entitled behavior is going to turn women off right away. After all, it is ultimately up to the girl that you’re speaking with decided she wants to send a nude or not.

Note: This video shows you EXACTLY how to text a girl the right way, so she doesn’t get angry or stop replying. It gives you some great PUA text game examples you can use.

More Ways to Get Nude Selfies

Sexy girl posting half naked for a selie.

Want more pics like this from women?

Want to know a secret?

When it comes to more ways to get nude selfies, it never pays to be nasty. And by that, I mean forget about being rude to the woman that you are speaking with.

So avoid messages like this…

“Hey boo, I’m horny… send me some nudes ;)”

Come on dude, what are you 10 years old?

Consider this.

It takes a brave woman to send a picture of their nude body to someone else. All this to say that there’s a fine line between vulgarity and dirty talk.

SERIOUS POINT: Once you lose her trust, she’ll never send you another nude selfie again. So be careful.

Speaking of trust, one of the hardest things that you have to do is prove to her that you are worth sending a naked picture too. Once you decide on what kind of person you want to be around her, make sure you stick with that persona as well.

That being said, it doesn’t hurt to tell the woman that you’re talking to how much you are attracted to her.

Trust me – if she feels the same way about you AND TRUSTS YOU, she will find a clear way to show it. Just make sure that you stay true to yourself and avoid fake compliments in exchange for nudes. Believe it or not, she will be able to tell if you are being genuine or not. Women have a freaky sixth sense with that stuff.

Final Tips on Getting Nude Texts From Girls

A man's hand holding an eggplant.

Never send an eggplant emoji you FOOL!

There are some useful tips you need to be aware of if you ant to increase your chances of receiving a nude.

  • Avoid sending the peach emoji or the eggplant emoji to the woman that you are interested in at all costs. As a matter of fact, this is almost as bad as sending a blurry dick pic to a woman who didn’t ask for it. You may think that this is a cute way to get a girl to send you nude photos, but instead, it’s actually sort of cowardly. Read this PUA text game openers guide for some helpful advice.
  • Never ask for the nude, unless you’re sexting with her already and it feels natural. So you’re already talking about what you might do to each other. Say “Stop it woman, you’re making me think bad thoughts!” or “I need to find my bible, the devil has control of my thoughts ahhhh” which is funny and a subtle way of telling her to send you more sexy texts or even a nude. Clever right?
  • Compliment her body. The quickest way to get a nude from a girl is by complimenting her body and letting her know how sexy she is. Something like “Congrats, you have a butt that can make a grown man cry (slow hand claps)”.
  • Tell her where you are. You could say “Listen, I’m with my mom at the market, don’t be sending me anything sexy… she might see”. You’re giving her a back handed psychological challenge, she’ll feel compelled to send you a nude.

Still Wondering How to Get a Girl to Send Nudes?

Luckily for you, you’re not alone.

To put it simply, most women only send nude photos to guys who they truly trust. Thus, slowly working your way up to the whole “send nudes” thing is probably the best way to go.

PRO TIP: Think gradual attraction, where you slowly warm her up. This isn’t like flicking a switch.

If she really likes you, then she will probably be happy to flirt back and forth with you.

Otherwise, signs that she doesn’t feel the same way are a red flag. If she didn’t text back, then she’s most likely not interested dude sorry.

All that you have to do is follow this handy guide to get the hot pics you are waiting for. Fingers crossed that you will (hopefully) get her to send nudes in no time bro.

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